So, yesterday on facebook, my SO made a status that said he was sick of always having to get up so early, and really wanted to get his sleeping days back. Well, this girl that he once thought of leaving me for commented on it saying. "If you lived with me, you'd get lots of sleep." I felt it was like a slap in the face, she knows me and everything. So all I said in return was. "He doesn't. So get over it." Then she went on and on about how I was a cheating slut and how I don't deserve him because I treat him like "garbage". I love him more then anything, and I have made a lot of mistakes, but most of them were revolving around the fact that I do have some intense mental issues. Which I am now taking antidepressants and going to counseling regularly to get better, and so far it has been working. It just pissed me off SO much because, she has no idea what our relationship is all about. He told me to just leave it alone, but I just couldn't. I needed to defend our relationship   And how much I love him. I want him to know that I'll fight for him.

Now what REALLY pissed me off about all of this, he didn't stand up for me, once. She was in the wrong, she called me out, she must have wanted me to say something. I didn't say anything bad to her. Just to get over her crush on my boyfriend, because she SHOULD move on. But all he said was "Quit fighting you too." And they're still talking and texting a lot. I don't like feeling jealous   But when he talks to her, I can't help it.

He should have stood up for you & he definably shouldn't be talking to her.

He needs to delete her asap! He needs to man up as well.

id be PISSED

Why the fuck is he texting someone he was going to leave you for and is trying to cause drama in your relationship?

Quoting Isabella's Mommy ♥:“ So, yesterday on facebook, my SO made a status that said he was sick of always having to get up so early, ... [snip!] ... too." And they're still talking and texting a lot. I don't like feeling jealous   But when he talks to her, I can't help it.”

id be pssed. he chose you, he needs to defend YOU, and your family you have with him.

Why is he talking to a girl that he once thought of leaving you for? I would not be having that. Once he made the choice to stay with you, then as far as I'm concerned any contact with her should have stopped immediately.

Um, no thanks! I would tell him to take her off his facebook and not to call or text her anymore if he has any respect for you. And I'd want to punch that chick in the f'ing face.

Quoting ღEvan's Mommyღ:“ Um, no thanks! I would tell him to take her off his facebook and not to call or text her anymore if he has any respect for you. And I'd want to punch that chick in the f'ing face.”

       

Quoting ღEvan's Mommyღ:“ Um, no thanks! I would tell him to take her off his facebook and not to call or text her anymore if he has any respect for you. And I'd want to punch that chick in the f'ing face.”

  

Thanks ladies   I definitely agree   I just don't want to be the controlling girlfriend, but I guess I will have to have a talk with him. And I definitely wanted to punch her in the face. He still thinks I have no reason to be pissed. -_-

Quoting Isabella's Mommy ♥:“ Thanks ladies   I definitely agree   I just don't want to be the controlling girlfriend, but I guess ... [snip!] ... to have a talk with him. And I definitely wanted to punch her in the face. He still thinks I have no reason to be pissed. -_-”

It's not being controlling really. This girl was/is disrespectful to you and if your man has any respect for you at all he wouldn't associate with her. And I would be pissed at him b/c surely she doesn't come up with these little stories on her own. He's probaby been bitching to her and I would tell him that if he wants to continue in your relationship and be able to last then he has to cut her out of his life. And if there's nothing there then he won't have a problem with it. If he puts up a big stink over it then I'd be a little concerned over why, considering the past history there.

Quoting Isabella's Mommy hearts;:#8220; Thanks ladies   I definitely agree   I just don't want to be the controlling girlfriend, but I guess ... [snip!] ... to have a talk with him. And I definitely wanted to punch her in the face. He still thinks I have no reason to be pissed. -_-#8221;

it sounds fishy! idk... but I bet he wouldn't like it if it was the other way around

Quoting ღEvan's Mommyღ:“ It's not being controlling really. This girl was/is disrespectful to you and if your man has any respect ... [snip!] ... problem with it. If he puts up a big stink over it then I'd be a little concerned over why, considering the past history there.”

He said to me that I shouldn't ruin his friendships   He has been friends with her for a long time, like 3 years. But still, we have a baby together, she's made me very upset, and I can't help but be jealous whenever I see him texting her or something. I don't want to take away his friends, I just don't want to feel jealous.

Quoting Isabella's Mommy ♥:“ He said to me that I shouldn't ruin his friendships   He has been friends with her for a long time, ... [snip!] ... jealous whenever I see him texting her or something. I don't want to take away his friends, I just don't want to feel jealous.”

then I would tell him that he shouldn't ruin ya'lls relationship. That if you mean anything to him then he would be willing to stop talking to her. Me personally, I have given my fiance reason to not trust me (I never cheated but I did talk to an ex often when I would break up with my fiance.. rough times) And now he doesn't want me to have my own myspace or facebook, even though it's been almost 3 years since it happened. But to me my relationship means more than anything, so our compromise is we share a profile. Relationships are about compromise and if he's not willing to do so then I wouldn't be so sure if I wanted to still be with him if I was you. But I don't know ya'lls relationship.