bad news for me :(

I got up and went to court with DH today...he's going to be put in jail on dec 1st for 76 days

That means I will be going through L and D completely alone....maybe that's not a huge deal to others but it is to me   I'm soooo upset about it

The fucked up part is its all over like 5 little bullshit tickets that he wanted to get taken care of before our son gets here that weren't dropped when he was in prison years ago

Quoting **TEAM BLUE**[35 weeks]:“ I got up and went to court with DH today...he's going to be put in jail on dec 1st for 76 days That ... [snip!] ... tickets that he wanted to get taken care of before our son gets here that weren't dropped when he was in prison years ago”

  Aww Chey. I wish I could come down there and lend you a hand! Can your mom be with you during labor & delivery?

im sorry mama. but it is doable. i was all alone at the hospital every night. keep your head up, you'll do great

Quoting **TEAM BLUE**[35 weeks]:“ I got up and went to court with DH today...he's going to be put in jail on dec 1st for 76 days That ... [snip!] ... tickets that he wanted to get taken care of before our son gets here that weren't dropped when he was in prison years ago”

no, it IS a big deal, that really sucks, im sorry   he cant postpone it for a little bit to at least be here when hes born????

I'm so sorry! That sucks so bad   Any chance your due date is off a little bit?

Quoting **TEAM BLUE**[35 weeks]:“ I got up and went to court with DH today...he's going to be put in jail on dec 1st for 76 days That ... [snip!] ... tickets that he wanted to get taken care of before our son gets here that weren't dropped when he was in prison years ago”

Do you have family that are local??

My mom and three close friends...and my moms best friend were my support with my second.

I found it more relaxing then the one with my first...when Blake WAS there.

GL hun, keep your head up....76 days is nothing in the end.

Hang in there girly, I know it's going to be hard but stay strong and keep your head up!! I'll be thinking of ya!!

I'm sorry hun.   I know how upset you must be.
But all us Gaga-ers will be there with you in spirit!  

My dad is having a heart procedure done 2 days before my due date 3 hrs away so my mom has to be with him....so that's out. Its possible my due date is off my LO has been measuring 4 weeks ahead my whole pregnancy but idk...

I know in the end it will be ok but now I'm seriously terrified....its our first child and it kills me that he's gonna miss the birth of his first child.

I know people do it alone everyday so that makes me feel bad for complaining.

Quoting **TEAM BLUE**[35 weeks]:“ I know in the end it will be ok but now I'm seriously terrified....its our first child and it kills me ... [snip!] ... he's gonna miss the birth of his first child. I know people do it alone everyday so that makes me feel bad for complaining.”

Don't feel bad, Chey! I bet women who've had their men skip on them STILL feel some sort of remorse that the baby's father couldn't be around/wouldn't be around.

Recruit some friends to be there for you, since neither of your parents can. Are you close with your MIL? Any aunts or female cousins? (I say 'female' because I know for me it would be hella weird to have male friends/relatives around when I'm pushing a baby out!)

  I'm sorry, that's awful...I have a feeling thought that your baby will come early...so hopefully he can be there with you!!! It still sucks that he won't be there for the first couple months.

See all my family lives several hrs away and my MIL can't stay sober long enough sooooo that's out....most of my good friends are guys so that's definatly out

I was an only child of only children so no family or anything like that....I hate to say it but I pray he comes early in nov sometime bc there is a possibility I may need a csection due to my son being breech as well....fuck fuck fuck

im sorry mamma!! i had to go threw l & d alone too and its no fun  
good luck!!

theres no way you can ask to be induced and explain the situation so your hubby can be ther ebefore he leaves?
I have seena lot of women with husband in the millitary be induced so he can be there before he leaves. or does it not line up with you due date?