Any thoughts?

So sometimes Fathead has an accident during the night. When she wakes up her pullup didn't work, and her clothes are soaked. No problem, I just change them.

Well lately whenever I try to take her clothes off she screams, as if someone is hurting her. She'll clutch onto me crying. The first time I just figured she was cold. So I quickly changed her and tried to put new clothes on her. But when I did that, she did the same thing as when I tried to take them off. he'd clutch onto me, crying and screaming.

I figured the first time, maybe a bad night or something, but when it happened this morning, i got a little worried. It's not as if it's in themiddle of the night. It's at 8 am when she wakes up. So my question is has anyone elses LO ever done this? Any thoughts on what's happening? I'm just getting a little worried.

I would deff be getting kind of worried. I know that my 4 month old doesn't like being naked at all he cries when we change his clothes too. I think its because he's tired. Maybe she was just a little tired and grumpy?

Quoting Ravey Candyass:“ So sometimes Fathead has an accident during the night. When she wakes up her pullup didn't work, and ... [snip!] ... up. So my question is has anyone elses LO ever done this? Any thoughts on what's happening? I'm just getting a little worried.”

My 3 year old daughter frequently goes through fazes where she completely freaks out when I change/dress her. I don't know if that is what your daughter is up to.
Do you have a real reason for concern, meaning, does she go to daycare or spend time with others while you are not around?

have you looked for a rash or anything that my be hurting in that area???

Here are some thoughts:

1. 21 months is too young to force potty training and she's frustrated/angry at you

2. She's not a morning person

3. She's been sexually abused. <-- requires you to question who she's been alone with,-- when, where, how long, etc etc.

I know my LO doesnt always like changing her clothes either sometimes..she'll get angy.
But is it some particular behaviour you see that you're worried about? and worried in what way?

Quoting Eli's mama:“ I would deff be getting kind of worried. I know that my 4 month old doesn't like being naked at all he ... [snip!] ... at all he cries when we change his clothes too. I think its because he's tired. Maybe she was just a little tired and grumpy?”

I thought that the first time, but she was up, talking to my nana and laughing, and then all of a sudden when I went to take her clothes off, her mod changed completely.

Quoting Colleen13:“ My 3 year old daughter frequently goes through fazes where she completely freaks out when I change/dress ... [snip!] ... to. Do you have a real reason for concern, meaning, does she go to daycare or spend time with others while you are not around?”

I'm hoping it's just a phase. But before I moved, she was spending time with my mom and stepdad, and well, he's a mean drunk, and she physically abused me for 12 years. That's why i'm starting to worry.

She acts like she's going to be in HUGE trouble for wetting herself. I knew her father and I never get mad at her, because really, you can't get mad at a 2 year old for doing that.

Quoting Grinbaby84:“ have you looked for a rash or anything that my be hurting in that area???”

I know it's not a rash because I've looked, and it's not the changing part she has trouble with. I can take her pull up off, wipe her, and put it back on.

Quoting Ravey Candyass:“ I'm hoping it's just a phase. But before I moved, she was spending time with my mom and stepdad, and ... [snip!] ... herself. I knew her father and I never get mad at her, because really, you can't get mad at a 2 year old for doing that.”

Sounds like your family abused your child.

Quoting Animal Guardian:“ Here are some thoughts: 1. 21 months is too young to force potty training and she's frustrated/angry ... [snip!] ... 3. She's been sexually abused. <-- requires you to question who she's been alone with,-- when, where, how long, etc etc.”

well 1) I'm not "force PT'ing her." so i have no idea where you got that from. She only sits on the potty when SHE asks too, and if she doesn't go i say "that's okay." and we go play. so no. it's not that.

2) she is a morning person. she's happy from the time she wakes up. she'll play in her crib, or climb into my bed and play with me.

3) this is the one I am worried about. Either sexually, or physically.

Quoting trinimama ™ ©:“ I know my LO doesnt always like changing her clothes either sometimes..she'll get angy. But is it some particular behaviour you see that you're worried about? and worried in what way?”

It's the way that she clutches me and screams. It's just, odd.

Quoting Ravey Candyass:“ well 1) I'm not "force PT'ing her." so i have no idea where you got that from. She only sits on the ... [snip!] ... in her crib, or climb into my bed and play with me. 3) this is the one I am worried about. Either sexually, or physically.”

oh boy...I pray it's not no.3  

Quoting Animal Guardian:“ Sounds like your family abused your child.”

I just wanted to make sure it wasn't only me thinking this.

I need to talk to my SO when he gets out of school.

Quoting trinimama ™ ©:“ oh boy...I pray it's not no.3  ”

I really do too. Ugh.