Stressed....

I am seventeen weeks right now, And yesterday I found out that I am having a girl   I had a feeling i was. Im so happy about it...

But lately I have been really stressed out, and I know that isn't healthy for the baby. I really just don't know what to do to keep myself calm. Im very hormonal right now :/ Any advise?

What are you stressed about?

Quoting sratrat:“ What are you stressed about?”

probably being 16 and pregnant 

Pretty much everything. It doesn't take much to get me upset... :/ I just feel really emotional. Things with my fiance, parents, just everything...

Quoting Autumn's mom(::“ Pretty much everything. It doesn't take much to get me upset... :/ I just feel really emotional. Things with my fiance, parents, just everything...”

Just try to take your mind off it.  Read, watch a movie, have a night out. Tackle one problem at a time. Avoid conversations or conflicts with your parents or fiance if you are feeling very emotional and just wait to talk things out later.

dont stress about everything then?

Quoting alexandrea.:“ probably being 16 and pregnant ”

You dont need to be rude, that was unnecessary. she didn't say anything wrong.

Quoting Mama Jailbait ♥:“ You dont need to be rude, that was unnecessary. she didn't say anything wrong.”

Seriously...

Quoting sratrat:“ Just try to take your mind off it. Read, watch a movie, have a night out. Tackle one problem at a time. ... [snip!] ... or conflicts with your parents or fiance if you are feeling very emotional and just wait to talk things out later.”

Thank you for the advise. Usually Ill just take a nap or read. But im having a lot of drama with my fiance. It's really stressful to be having a baby. But Im happy that I am. I have seen my baby in U/S's and she is the most beautiful thing<3. I guess that makes it worth the stress.

Quoting Autumn's mom(::“ Thank you for the advise. Usually Ill just take a nap or read. But im having a lot of drama with my fiance. ... [snip!] ... happy that I am. I have seen my baby in U/S's and she is the most beautiful thing<3. I guess that makes it worth the stress.”

Hopefully things get better for you guys   Having a baby at any age puts a lot of stress on a relationship. Just try and communicate with each other and talk things through. It will probably  get VERY tough once the baby gets here but you just have to work through it.

Quoting Autumn's mom(::“ Seriously...”

Just ignore the people that say stupid things because they think they either have the right to constantly be a twat, or think they can say things because they have a high post count.
I was 16 when i got pregnant with my LO, but since i dont flaunt the fact that im 18, nor do i act my age i don't get shit from it.
Some people on here are just bored and feel like being ignorant biotches 24/7.
That's about it,
Piece of great advice.

Quoting sratrat:“ Hopefully things get better for you guys   Having a baby at any age puts a lot of stress on a relationship. ... [snip!] ... other and talk things through. It will probably get VERY tough once the baby gets here but you just have to work through it.”

Well the thing is, right before we dound out i was pregnant, I was thinking about breaking things off between us... Because even back then he was stressing me out like no other. Lying, Treating me like shit... etc...
Then i find out I'm pregnant...

Quoting Mama Jailbait ♥:“ Just ignore the people that say stupid things because they think they either have the right to constantly ... [snip!] ... it. Some people on here are just bored and feel like being ignorant biotches 24/7. That's about it, Piece of great advice.”

Yeah I realize that, lol. That's why I didn't reply to her smart comment. ;)

Quoting Autumn's mom(::“ Well the thing is, right before we dound out i was pregnant, I was thinking about breaking things off ... [snip!] ... even back then he was stressing me out like no other. Lying, Treating me like shit... etc... Then i find out I'm pregnant...”

You don't have to stay with him just because you are having a baby. You can both be civil with each other and be in her life. You just won't be together. Theres nothing wrong with trying to work things out if you really want to be with him though. Lots of couples have doubts and go through ups and downs.

With a baby and just being pregnant alone will stress you and him out. I was 16 when I had my daughter and we were stressed out badly. I don't see how we are still together but if it is meant to be then it wont need to be forced.