Flirting or not

Ok Ive been married for a year and half and my husband is a big flirt its just the way he is always has been since ive known him.. i dont think he realizes it.. But anyway the other night he left his profile up on the computer and i sat down and decided to look at his messages (probably shouldnt have but did) and he has a friend that works with him shes a nurse and shes all i used to hear about she did this she said that, but i seen a message to her say: "Any more hot pics i need to see lol". What would you ladies think of this? Im pregnant with my our second child and I know I know hormones but come on I need some advise what should i say what should i do?

Quoting Mrs. Losh:“ Ok Ive been married for a year and half and my husband is a big flirt its just the way he is always has ... [snip!] ... pregnant with my our second child and I know I know hormones but come on I need some advise what should i say what should i do?”

i would be livid   if i were in your postion i'd confront him about it let him know this is considered cheating. and how would he feel if the situation was flipped.

I'd be upset and mad....I'd question him about it, but that's just me!!

That's innapropriate. And if my husband tried to use the excuse "I'm a flirt" I'd smack him (not literally lol).

If that were my husband I'd promptly be honest with him, tell him that I was looking and then ask what she said was all about.

open communication = happy marriage.

It's not just your hormones. That's ridiculous. You need to talk to him about it.

I'd slap that fool!

Quoting Cartman:“ That's innapropriate. And if my husband tried to use the excuse "I'm a flirt" I'd smack him (not literally lol).”

I would  

Quoting Cartman:“ That's innapropriate. And if my husband tried to use the excuse "I'm a flirt" I'd smack him (not literally lol).”

i'd smack the shit out of my DH if he tried to pull the "i'm a flirt". i'd be like "well then flirt with me!, not other women!"

I think that is totally inappropriate. i'd tell him it made me feel really uncomfortable that he is viewing 'hott' pics of his coworkers.

i would confront him...i did when i found the same thing from my ex and it turned out he was cheating on me  

Hes knows i seen it.. he gave me this big go around about how he never cheated on me never will, i need to stop being such a baby, he would never leave me, the only reason i didnt really go off on him was because my one year old was sitting right there staring at me.. i just cried

Quoting pilot Jess:“ If that were my husband I'd promptly be honest with him, tell him that I was looking and then ask what she said was all about. open communication = happy marriage.”

this is very true. but (for me at least), easier said than done.

Quoting Mrs. Losh:“ Hes knows i seen it.. he gave me this big go around about how he never cheated on me never will, i need ... [snip!] ... the only reason i didnt really go off on him was because my one year old was sitting right there staring at me.. i just cried”

That's ridiculous.

He needs to grow up. Married adults and adults in serious relationships dont ask for "hot" pictures of their coworkers. Period.

Quoting Mrs. Losh:“ Hes knows i seen it.. he gave me this big go around about how he never cheated on me never will, i need ... [snip!] ... the only reason i didnt really go off on him was because my one year old was sitting right there staring at me.. i just cried”

that's just bullshit coming from his mouth because he know's he got busted. if he would never cheat on you why would he make you feel inferior to this other woman. why is she sending him "hot pics" of herself and he's ok with it and even asking if there are more to see?