Help? need advice

I need your opinions ladies. Ima new momma and member to this site and need some advice and input through your opinions. Me and the bf have been togather for 4 years on and off. He has had jelousy problems and insecurity issues that lead to 3 break ups. His problem was that he became controlling to the point where i couldnt talk to guys at work w.o him thinking i liked them or something was going on between me and one of the guys. It got annoying as i knew that this issue caused us to break up before and every time i confronted him about it he said he would work on it and that he knew being jelous wasn't going to solve anything. Ive never cheated on him nor did anything to make him think this way.Anyways at the time of august 11 i decided we needed to end it b/c it was an ongoing matter that never seemed to be resolved and i was tired of feeling locked down. In despite of the anger I had it set in my mindthat this was it between us and that i was ready to have fun and enjoy myself. Doing so i ended up sleeping wth 2 guys. The first being on the 13th protectedand the second one on the 29th & 31st unprotected both times but pulled out. Couple days later me and the ex ended up getting togather for one last time without a condom and him fully ejaculating in me TMI sorry!! After realizing how much i missed him on september 3rd we got back toather anddecided to work out our differencesand promise each other that if we break up again its done for good and wasn't meant to be. Now here's my problem i had a period in august any where from the 15th-19th i don't remember my lmp exactly, well when september rolled around i missed it as well in october. I took a test on october 2 and it came back positive.I had my first doc visit today with an ultrasoundand she said that Im 10 weeks and 1 day and due may 31st with my conception date falling on july 27th. My problem is that i have a strong gut feeling that this baby ishis but his parents are back tracking and saying thatwith the calculations it doesnt seem to look like it would be his rather its one of the other guys. Now in july we were togather and i just really dont know what to think. I want it to be his more then anything so we can keep it and move on with our lifes and plansfor the future but if it happened not to be then theres no doubt about it but im getting an abortion.
Sooo with your help ladies what do you think is it his or am i just digging myself in deep hole. Im so stressed and worried..I pray its his.I love him so much :'[Please help!!

if you only were sleeping with him (bf) in July then it can't possibly be the other guys' baby....but if the conception date was the end of August, it could be the otehr guys kid.

maybe think of adoption?? you can still get pregnant with the pull out method..thats how my LO came along..just saying

&& another thing my due date with my LO was May 2nd and the conceptionj date based on the u/s was July 25..

I hope you're not serious about getting an abortion just b/c it's not his????

I was due June 8th with the conception date of Sept 12th. So I'm kinda wondering how your conception date was in july and your due only a week before me? I don't know who's baby it is but I think you should maybe not be with this guy especially if his control issues were never resolved. Consider adoption.

Quoting Eve0h8:“ I need your opinions ladies. Ima new momma and member to this site and need some advice and input through ... [snip!] ... it his or am i just digging myself in deep hole. Im so stressed and worried..I pray its his.I love him so much :'[Please help!!”

I hate post like this if you had unprotected sex and didnt take the procations not to get pregnant then you should suck it up and have the baby abortion is not b/c!!!

Quoting ♥Kait:“ I hope you're not serious about getting an abortion just b/c it's not his???? I was due June 8th with ... [snip!] ... is but I think you should maybe not be with this guy especially if his control issues were never resolved. Consider adoption.”

  Agreed. You shouldn't decide whether to keep the baby or not just based on who's it is. And I'm sorry I can't help you more but the dates you posted confused me, what month did you sleep with the other two guys in?

Nevermind guys we got it figured out. Everything just honestly didnt make sense as the ultrasound tech lady told me i concieved the baby on july 27th yet im 10 weeks and 2 days along. We did the exact calculations back tracking and averaging my lmpto be on or close around the 19th with my cycle being 33 days and it falls in the range that me and my bf were toagther and sexually active. Everything just didnt make sense and threw usespecially me off guard with that conception date. Thanks anyways girls, everyone makes mistakes you live and you learn andI sure as hell learned never to put myself in a position like that.