so i guess im single now

me and my bf just got into this huge pointless fight over the phone
he got pissed because i told him i didnt want to talk to him over the phone while he was drunk . so his friend brought him over and we got in to this huge thing and what he basically said was "hes done with all this crap hes not ready to be a dad he wants to live his life with out this and he regrets everything "usaully i would just blow this off because its happend a couple times before sure i know hes scared out of his mind but now im just done and over it . i mean yeah i love him and everthing and the baby doese need a daddy but i just cant hadle his bs and this stress and i cant go threw this every other week
amd i wrong for calling quits or should i just work it out?

Just wait. He'll come crawling back with his tail between his legs.

You definitely don't need him jerking you up and down on an emotional roller coaster ride while you're pregnant, though. Tell him to shape up or ship out next time he comes around.

Sorry he's such a pain in the ass

Im sorry mama
but you can do it on your own =]
but he will be back

A drunk man says what's on a sober man's mind.

kick him to the curb until he's ready to be a man.

he needs to grow up and there isn't anything you can do to make it happen. i'd say distance yorurself from him and leave his prescence in your and your baby's life up to him.

keep your head up!!

I think I'd take a step back and let him decide what he wants. I'd let him know that you are open and willing to work it out but you're sick of his shit and can do it alone.

I guess thats up to you..

He may just be scared and will come around.
But if you do go at it alone, you can do it...

He is out getting drunk and picking fights and everything, maybe he needs some time to figure things out.

Sorry mama, hopefully everything turns out for the best though.

Remember alcohol was talking, not him!

Wait... see if he was saying that because he was drunk (and if so... shame on him)

But.

A baby does not need a daddy that is uninvolved and uninterested.

I would wait till he's sober and have a serious heart to heart with him. Don't let yourself get stressed out to much. You don't need it. And if he does leave then screw him it's his loss. You can do it with or without him!! Good luck!

Don't chase his down, but don't shut the door on the relationship either. He may come crawling back when he realizes how stooopid he's behaving. Right now it may be the alcohol talking anyways.