y ?

y do i have sahd that doesnt do anything but feed my daughter ?
y do i have to come home day after day to find the dishes not done and getting more and more stacked up to the point where now they are on the goddamn counter? and we have 2 sinkes! full of dishes? y do i find baby bottles rinced out and not fucking washed .
y did i just find laundry i put in the dryer on sunday still in there?
n y the hell did he get mad at me n go sleep on the couch cuz i didnt wanna have sex with him? seroiusly?
y do i get a vibe like he doesnt like me, that im not doing something right?

im not doin the dishes . he fukin sits on his goddamn ass all day. i come home for lunch today n find him sleeping with nika. i come home from work, get ready to go for a run n hes fucking gone to the bedroom n is sleeping.
im so frustrarted i just wanna cry!
n if i get mad he gets in my face that i should go take my meds!

He'd expect you to do all that if you were the one staying home. He should do it if he's home all day, IMO.

Because men are pointless...period!

Men are useless! Unless I tell my husband every little thing to do then nothing gets done. Does he not see the laundry? Does he not see the dishes? Is he blind!? UGH!!!! I feel you're pain.

  gah i just wanna run away with my daughter for a few days. im so tired of this shity vibe in the house, like wtf im paying all the bills, i could b getting deployd next year. cut me a fucking brake n help our around the house!!!

you should show him who's boss make him wash those dishes if all he does is sit on his ass all day. you deserve way better

Quoting ("\(-_-)/"):“ Because men are pointless...period!”

 
like y do i have have him in my life? hes like the guy on the couch

Quoting Carmen&Katy:“ you should show him who's boss make him wash those dishes if all he does is sit on his ass all day. you deserve way better”

i wonder what the hell he does all day. cuz i doont see anything being done .. and if he does do something, he wont shut the hell up about it. like he should get a treat or something

Quoting SubLowE:“   like y do i have have him in my life? hes like the guy on the couch”

tell him to do the housework or go find a job. let him know you are too tired when you get home to pick up.

Quoting SubLowE:“ i wonder what the hell he does all day. cuz i doont see anything being done .. and if he does do something, he wont shut the hell up about it. like he should get a treat or something”

oh god my SO does that too. if he gets a hair up his butt and starts cleaning...he starts bitching about how i don't do anything around the house and he's cleaning, why can't i. but when i clean and do everything it's no big deal. i wonder who he thinks bathes the kids, makes/cleans the baby bottles, packs the kids clothes for the day, loads/unloads the dishwasher, picks up the kids rooms, cleans the bathrom...i could go on. he claims i don't do laundry b/c i don't immediately fold it (sometimes it sits on the couch downstairs for a few days before i fold it). i do all that and i work! it's bad enough i pickup after myself and the kids, but to pick up after him too! Ugh.

I feel ya! Well I'm a stay at home mom and my husband works but that doesn't mean he can't help around. I do EVERYTHING. Dishes, sweeping, mopping, take out the trash, clean up after him (he is the biggest slob EVER!) constantly. I let things build up but nope he won't do shit. And god forbid if I want to take a shower I ask him to watch the baby...feed...or change his diaper he makes a face and grunts like i'm imposing on him or something. Hello we both wanted to have a child maybe he should start acting like it. Sometimes he does things with the baby but honestly not as much as I thought. I kinda feel like he just doesn't care sometimes about me or the baby otherwise he would help more ya know? I understand where your coming from believe me.....Maybe its just a phase, I doubt it. You should have a sit down with your hubby no yelling and what not that way he can't complain that you should go back on your meds or w/e but calmly talk to him tell him how your feeling how you want him to help out more and step up a bit. Just no yelling cause I have that problem and even though I'm right he'll turn it around on me that I'm being a bitch and all i do is yell and scream and complain so....yea....hope that helped you a bit hun