i need some advice

ok so the baby's daddy hasnt been in the picture the whole time. i have actually been with someone else the last 5 mnths. well now the dad is wanting to step in but he keeps making threats to my bf. and saying he cant buy her anything and bunch of crap. someone please give me some advice??

ignore his threats? file a police report for harassment?

tell his lame ass that ur bf has been more of a daddy than he has ever been and just because he wants to step in now, that doesnt matter. Shes ur baby more than anyones and you take care of her, you can say who buys her things and so forth. if he wants to step in let him, but get him in his place!

What threats is he making?

im 17 and he is 23. but my family is on his side. they want to make me marry him. at the moment they are mad bc he just showed up today but they let him come in. they said i had to talk to him and theres nothing i can do about it.

Quoting kaylee's mommy!:“ ok so the baby's daddy hasnt been in the picture the whole time. i have actually been with someone else ... [snip!] ... he keeps making threats to my bf. and saying he cant buy her anything and bunch of crap. someone please give me some advice??”

Ingore him ahhh my BD is telling me he ant paying child support and that HE HAS to be in my childs life i already told him i will give him visation on the weekend with me there but not if he ant paying.Im also with someone else who has given me more then what i will see outa BD and when BD is MAD at me he dont speek to me or call me i have talked to him twice in the 8 mthns i have been preggers lol....

Quoting kaylee's mommy!:“ im 17 and he is 23. but my family is on his side. they want to make me marry him. at the moment they ... [snip!] ... mad bc he just showed up today but they let him come in. they said i had to talk to him and theres nothing i can do about it.”

ugh its ur child, u can do what u want.. not theres. they cant make u do anything minor or not

What an ass. I would not put up with it. Yes, biologically he is the father, but he doesn't want anything to do with you your whole pregnancy and now he is makin threats?? Ignore his jealous ass!

Quoting kaylee's mommy!:“ im 17 and he is 23. but my family is on his side. they want to make me marry him. at the moment they ... [snip!] ... mad bc he just showed up today but they let him come in. they said i had to talk to him and theres nothing i can do about it.”

They can't make you do anything. Just because you're pregnant doesn't mean you have to get married.

i told him already that he cant tell me who i can date or who can by her anything. he said he is going to whoop his butt and everything. which im not worried about that but my family said he can take me to court and take her if i deny him rights. and if i dont get along with him.

Quoting kaylee's mommy!:“ i told him already that he cant tell me who i can date or who can by her anything. he said he is going ... [snip!] ... about that but my family said he can take me to court and take her if i deny him rights. and if i dont get along with him.”

he wont get her unless he can prove u unfit. and with him not being in the picture so far, highly unlikely

he had a gf but she broke up with him so now he wants to be involved. i live with my gmaw at the moment bc my bf is trying to find a job. and my family dont like my bf so they said if we dont break up then i have to move out.

Quoting kaylee's mommy!:“ he had a gf but she broke up with him so now he wants to be involved. i live with my gmaw at the moment ... [snip!] ... bc my bf is trying to find a job. and my family dont like my bf so they said if we dont break up then i have to move out.”

whart loving parents...just do what u think is best for u and ur daughter. no one else.

Quoting kaylee's mommy!:“ he had a gf but she broke up with him so now he wants to be involved. i live with my gmaw at the moment ... [snip!] ... bc my bf is trying to find a job. and my family dont like my bf so they said if we dont break up then i have to move out.”

How old is your current boyfriend?

thanx everyone. i really needed some advice. bc its hard when your family tells you that your making stupid choices and your going to lose your baby. when the dad has anger problems and some nazi swat... something tattoo on his chest. for the last 8 months he has been partying. ughh its so frustrating.