confused much?

Okay so I don't post...hardly ever just cuz I dont have time and whatnot but seriously i need some opinions. There's this guy I met at school in one of my classes...we started talking, hanging out and whatnot. I've only known him for like 4 ish months but he was talking all serious relationship stuff when we were hanging out and whatnot...now the class is over and I don't ever hear from him hardly. Maybe like once or twice a week. I run into him at school the other day and we start talking and its like nothing weird to him. He's still all hey babe and whatnot, like this is normally how he is in relationships. I haven't seen him in like 3 weeks which is fine with me cuz I'm a single mom with a full time job and I go to school full time so not like I ever have any free time to spend with guys anyways. His last relationship was 7 years and completely long distance and didn't really see her much. Like we used to each other once a week and he's all "this is the most time ive ever spent with a gf" I'm just confused..is he all of the sudden not interested anymore? Or is this really how he is in relationships...hmm. Opinions?

Sounds like he's playing you.

Well, it seems weird though. You would think that since he CAN see you he would more...? maybe thats just me though??

It probably gives him time to have a few of "you" on the side.

I hope you're not sleeping with him when you see him...please tell me no...seems like he's just using you.

Naw see thats the thing...he can't see me more cuz I don't have any free nights, but he doesn't know that because I never talk to him. Yeah..i guess weird. Most of the time I can tell a guy's playing me...he just seems..weird. lol but not like playing me weird. Just like loner weird.

Quoting la_mas_hermosa:“ I hope you're not sleeping with him when you see him...please tell me no...seems like he's just using you.”

Lol well since I dont ever see him...nope not sleeping with him. lol Idk im not a big relationship person either...i like being single and whatnot but usually I can sense these things dammitt. lol

Then why do you need to know so badly.

Quoting deleting  :“ Then why do you need to know so badly.”

I don't want to be the one being played...if anyone's going to be doing the playing..i'd prefer it be me.

Quoting rachel_lynne:“ I don't want to be the one being played...if anyone's going to be doing the playing..i'd prefer it be me.”

I would move on then. Say hi and all when he does, but I wouldn't consider him potential relationship material. If he wants to see you- he will make it happen, and doesn't seem like he wants to.

Quoting la_mas_hermosa:“ I would move on then. Say hi and all when he does, but I wouldn't consider him potential relationship material. If he wants to see you- he will make it happen, and doesn't seem like he wants to.”

Yeah thats pretty much what I was thinking to. dammitt. I reallly liked talking to him though. He was the one guy I didn't actually have to dumb myself down to talk to and appreciated a smart conversation.