Tell me it's ok....

It's ok that my laundry is piled up
It's ok that my dishes don't get done the same day
It's ok if we eat hot dogs and mac and cheese for dinner
It's ok if I miss a shower every once and awhile
It's ok if I don't get dressed everyday

I'm having a really difficult time right now. I have OCD when is comes to cleaning and keeping my house clean. Lately I've just been so sore and tired I can't seem to keep up on all the household chores. My DH understands and he is always telling me not to apologize but I just feel so horrible. He works two jobs while I sit here. Don't get me wrong I do work an on call job and another part time job but it's not the same.

Do any other mamma's have these feelings?

Sometimes I get mad that I clean my house for like 3 hours and at the end of the day it looks like I didn't cleaned it. But rules are already set up. You eat food, you wash your own dishes...lol

It's ok. Sometimes life gets in the way of our "chores".

I know how you feel!

Sounds like me. It looks like I do Jack shit all day and yet I can't even seem to sit and take a break for more tha 10 min if I'm lucky, let alone shower unless I wake up before the kids.

It's okay! It sounds like my house minus already having children. I'm not supposed to be on my feet a lot. They took me out of work. I feel like a jerk since hubby is still working and doing more of the cleaning, but it's okay. My husband tells me not to worry too, but I know how you feel.

But I do sit on my butt all day! I get so exhausted just thinking about showering and getting dressed. I finally got the dishes done today.

oh mama, i agree with you completely and everything is okay. *hugs and kisses*

Quoting Trisha (29 weeks):“ But I do sit on my butt all day! I get so exhausted just thinking about showering and getting dressed. I finally got the dishes done today.”

Right now I am the same way. I have been sitting on my butt for the past couple of days because I just can't seem to get up. And when I do I'm exhausted. You'll get your "second wind" soon, hopefully, and be able to keep up with everything.

Quoting ~:Ashley {26 weeks}:~:“ Right now I am the same way. I have been sitting on my butt for the past couple of days because I just ... [snip!] ... to get up. And when I do I'm exhausted. You'll get your "second wind" soon, hopefully, and be able to keep up with everything.”

I hope soon...we don't have anything ready for baby!