He is so immature and needs to grow the fuck up. We have an 11 month old daughter, who he expects to act like a three to five year old. Right now hes pissing me off because he has his stupid pile of Dungeons and Dragons books on the couch, not using them or anything, just sitting next to him like they are his girlfriend. Our DD keeps coming over and touching them...and *smack*! Right on the hand. Every few minutes or so she comes over to see what they are. And *Smack*! So I got sick of seeing him smacking her poor little hand. (WHICH I HAVE TOLD HIM OVER AND OVER TO STOP DOING BECAUSE I DO NOT LIKE THAT BEHAVIOR AT ALL,BUT HE JUST IGNORES ME) So I ask him why he doesnt just put the books up on the shelf, hes not using them temptation gone. She wont bother them any more. But no. hes like, DONT TOUCH THEM. He has been on the computer since 10 this morning. Before even saying good moring to me or the babe, he just gets right on. We share a laptop, and Ive snuck off a few minutes to write this VENT. Well Its almost five here and hes still on that fucking thing. I know that today is his day off, but that doesnt mean that he can stop being a father, and all the responsibilities that come with it. I have had the flu for the passed three or four days. Last night I was nursing our daughter and asked the prick to get me some tea because my voice was going out. So he was like ok in a minute. No faster than he closes the door to our bedroom does he zoom right off to that laptop. AND COMPLETELY FORGETS ABOUT US. A whole hour goes by and I come out and there his dumb ass is sitting on the couch with the laptop. Then today I was sick in bed, and asked him to make me a sandwhich, and he says ok. Same thing two hours later sitting on the fucking couch. I was so pissed. I am sick with the Flu but I have to ask his dumbass to even check DD diaper. She could go a whole day and he would forget to even check. Thank god for mothers otherwise shit would never get done. He was complaining that he never gets to use the computer, and that he has been trying to write something down all day, but he cant because DD gets into stuff. No shit she is a baby. She is going to get into shit. And he has been on the computer all day. So I told him he was a dumb bastard and that he needs to grow the hell up. I know I can be mean but I just cant take it anymore. Sometimes I ponder leaving him, but I would have no where to go. What the hell can I say to him to make him stop being so immature?

I just read the first 6 lines and wow, he is the biggest douchebag ever.!

He shouldn't be disciplining an 11 month old child that way and I wouldn't be TTC with him either. He sounds like an ass.

How you haven't killed him amazes me!
I would have kicked his lazy ass long ago.

It's time to lay down the law and the nonstop on the computer needs to go. He needs to limit that, big time.
Basically have a talk and lay it all down in front of him.
Good luck!

i would throw his effing D&D crap in the trash and tell him you got rid of the problem. he sounds like a douche bag that needs to learn a lesson. if i were you id tell him shape up or ship out.

Quoting ♥Shay♥:“ He shouldn't be disciplining an 11 month old child that way and I wouldn't be TTC with him either. He sounds like an ass.”

i agree

Quoting Giselle's Mama:“ I just read the first 6 lines and wow, he is the biggest douchebag ever.!”

 

I'm sorry but putting your shit away is a no brainer. Tell him not to leave his crap around and a curious child wouldn't be looking at it. I would honestly flip my shit if this was my husband.

Quoting ♥Shay♥:“ He shouldn't be disciplining an 11 month old child that way and I wouldn't be TTC with him either. He sounds like an ass.”

  I strongly agree

How can you put up with it??
I'm not the bitchy wife but in my house we have rules,
You don't like them well leave.

I wonder who thinks you're overacting about him. He seems like a fucking douche. Tell him to save his fantasy games for when your daughter is sleeping.

Quoting Danielle Sharise:“ I wonder who thinks you're overacting about him. He seems like a fucking douche. Tell him to save his fantasy games for when your daughter is sleeping.”

  

Men, can't live with 'em. Can't live w/o 'em.

My hubby used to do that, and he also believes in the 'teach them not to touch' intead of just putting things up b/c that is how his parents did it. But I'd ask him to do this, do that, and it would NEVER get done. Took me a few weeks to figure out he was using the laptop & ps2 to 'zone out' b/c he was under too much stress. I made him cut his hours back @ work & he started helping me out more and spending more time with us instead of his stupid laptop.

I hope its just stress & he's not just a a-hole mama!

Was he a gamer before you married him? If so, expecting that this would have changed just bc you got married and had a baby is unrealistic at best. His hand smacking actions are unacceptable, and you are right to be upset by it. If he doesn't want her touching the books, they need to be put up. Sometimes boundries can work with spouses as well. For instance: Honey, I realize you were looking at your D&D books this afternoon, but could you please put them up before bed? If you wake up to find them still sitting there, then box them up, put them up...and when he asks you where they are, tell him you got tired of being unable to sit on the couch for all the mess.

Quoting Danielle Sharise:“ I wonder who thinks you're overacting about him. He seems like a fucking douche. Tell him to save his fantasy games for when your daughter is sleeping.”

 

Must be some women who also have lazy SO's!

Quoting Giselle's Mama:“ How can you put up with it?? I'm not the bitchy wife but in my house we have rules, You don't like them well leave.”