re: Calling ALL new 2009 Mama's!!!

So.... we "did it" last night.
It was nice, no pain but we were gentle......shitty thing though is all I could think about is how I DO NOT want get pregnant again lol

Quoting Amanda&Zane:“ Zane had a rash i couldn't get to go away with destin... i put a&d ointment on it and it was gone the next day!”

i couldn't put either of those on kaden, i used balmex, aveeno & towards when he was almost out of diapers i started using butt paste

Quoting Shannonsfirst:“ So.... we "did it" last night. It was nice, no pain but we were gentle......shitty thing though is all I could think about is how I DO NOT want get pregnant again lol”

lucky!!! I don't want to get pregnant again either!!! that is one reason i'm going to wait......

Quoting Shannonsfirst:“ So.... we "did it" last night. It was nice, no pain but we were gentle......shitty thing though is all I could think about is how I DO NOT want get pregnant again lol”

Lucky you.. I still havent dare my self to do it.. + I told him to buy condoms..lol

Quoting Khryztal:“ Nahh girl!!.. i dont dare my self yet!”

dont blame u one bit girl

Amon was born Sept 22 @ 1036 am after 2 days of labor. 9lbs 11oz  
Day he came home from the hospital (2 days old)


First Halloween


Beautiful Smile


6 weeks


Ready to go for a trip

Quoting Shannonsfirst:“ k, I have a question I need to ask you ladies....cause I know if I post it in another forum Ill get attacked. ... [snip!] ... it, and I would love to be with him again without the big baby bump....can any of you think why no one told us to wait 6 weeks?”

If you had no tearing and are healthy and healing I see no problem with having sex before 6 weeks.
My hubby and I had sex when I was only 11 days PP with this one and it was great for us! A lot of ladies gave me flack for doing it so early but I had no tearing and felt fine. We were careful and used protection and took it slow. I say whenever you feel comfortable, go for it, but make sure your SO let's you control how everything goes and to stop if it's painful at all.

Quoting Shannonsfirst:“ So.... we "did it" last night. It was nice, no pain but we were gentle......shitty thing though is all I could think about is how I DO NOT want get pregnant again lol”

Oh, didn't see this post! Glad to hear it went well, lol.

Quoting ~*Amon's Mommy*~:“ Amon was born Sept 22 @ 1036 am after 2 days of labor. 9lbs 11oz   Day he came home from the hospital (2 days old) First Halloween Beautiful Smile 6 weeks Ready to go for a trip ”

Wow, he is seriously cute! And two days of labour? You poor lady!

Big baby! He reminds me of my son, who was 9lbs 1oz. He also has the same dark hair   Congrats!

Quoting ~*Amon's Mommy*~:“ Amon was born Sept 22 @ 1036 am after 2 days of labor. 9lbs 11oz   Day he came home from the hospital (2 days old) First Halloween Beautiful Smile 6 weeks Ready to go for a trip ”

He's so darn cute!!!!!   

Quoting rosamor {EBFB}:“ Wow, he is seriously cute! And two days of labour? You poor lady! Big baby! He reminds me of my son, who was 9lbs 1oz. He also has the same dark hair   Congrats!”

thank you.  

I dont know what is going on with Maximus but all he wants to do is sleep with me or his dad. (well anyone who iscuddlinghim). Yesterday was stressful. I feed him, he falls asleep, I put him to bed and he wakes up. I feed him and do it all again - I could do this like 3 or 4 times! I was bawling last night. I felt like such a failure. I do not believe in co-sleeping (just my opinion, no judgement to those who do, to eachtheirown). But he only stays asleep if he is with someone.
So today - we have introduced the soother!
We woke up, he was chilln on the floor for a bit. I gave him a bath, changed him, fed him and out he went. As soon as I put him in his bed, he got all antsi. So I put the soother in his mouth, sat there with him for about 15 mins - and finally my little man feel asleep - AND I GOT A SHOWER!!  

Step by step....we will learn this together

Quoting Shannonsfirst:“ I dont know what is going on with Maximus but all he wants to do is sleep with me or his dad. (well anyone ... [snip!] ... about 15 mins - and finally my little man feel asleep - AND I GOT A SHOWER!!   Step by step....we will learn this together”

Zane does that to me too. He's getting better but the first couple weeks, I had to hold him for him to sleep... makes mama very tired!

Quoting Shannonsfirst:“ I dont know what is going on with Maximus but all he wants to do is sleep with me or his dad. (well anyone ... [snip!] ... about 15 mins - and finally my little man feel asleep - AND I GOT A SHOWER!!   Step by step....we will learn this together”

Wow!!.. Naty Co-Sleep with me like at 3am for almost 3hrs till my SO notice i fell asleep with her and he put her on her bassinet.. but yesterday she didnt felt good soo she fell asleep in daddys arm and then we pass her to her bassinet and she kept sleeping there

Quoting Shannonsfirst:“ I dont know what is going on with Maximus but all he wants to do is sleep with me or his dad. (well anyone ... [snip!] ... about 15 mins - and finally my little man feel asleep - AND I GOT A SHOWER!!   Step by step....we will learn this together”

I'm a co-sleeper, and i've been having issues w/ this as well...... my daughter will only sleep if i'm holding her or if she's in her swing  
she WILL NT take a pacifier for anything, and it seems every time i get her to sleep, she either wakes up, or is woken up by my son  
my shoulders hurt so bad from holding her!! & I don't get much done, cause every chance i get i'm online!  but... they're only this small for a short time..... so i'll enjoy it while it lasts.....
I'm glad you found a way to help him sleep!! hopefully it continues to work!!
I'd probably have an easier time keeping her asleep if i didn't have a hyper 4 year old running around all day!