re: A Good Healthy Relationship
2395 postsposted 3rd Nov
Quoting I Want A Baby Boy!:“ well see after my miscarrage i didnt want to it was because of him that we were even having unprotected ... [snip!] ... having unprotected sex. dont get me wrong i mentioned condoms to him all the time after the miscarriage but then i just stoped”
And that's why you're defending your decision so hard to TTC right?
I'm due April 3rd (a boy) & live in Las Vegas, Nevada
31481 postsposted 3rd Nov
Quoting I Want A Baby Boy!:“ well see after my miscarrage i didnt want to it was because of him that we were even having unprotected ... [snip!] ... having unprotected sex. dont get me wrong i mentioned condoms to him all the time after the miscarriage but then i just stoped”hes not the only one to blam u didnt have to have sex if hedidnt have a condom thats stupid no one can make u only u can
I'm TTC since March '10, have 2 kids & live in New Mexico
805 postsposted 3rd Nov
Quoting I Want A Baby Boy!:“ well see after my miscarrage i didnt want to it was because of him that we were even having unprotected ... [snip!] ... having unprotected sex. dont get me wrong i mentioned condoms to him all the time after the miscarriage but then i just stoped”Well, all I can say to this is dont have sex with him. Because if you dont truly want the baby now what makes you think you will later?
I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Florida
5749 postsposted 3rd Nov
Quoting I Want A Baby Boy!:“ see i dont tell him i love him cause i dont and i know that forever is a very long time”Do you have any idea how much you will change over the next 5 years?
I have 1 child & live in Julian, North Carolina
451 postsposted 3rd Nov
Quoting Misfit♥Mommy:“ And that's why you're defending your decision so hard to TTC right?”b cause of him
I'm due July 12th & live in Connecticut
posted 3rd Nov
Quoting Wiggity Wack:“ Do you have any idea how much you will change over the next 5 years?”i have no idea
I'm due July 12th & live in Connecticut
9926 postsposted 3rd Nov
Even if you still wanted to TTC, it sounds like the douche that you are dating certainily isn't the fatherly type. Sounds like as soon as you have a child he's going to either a. marry you and begin to beat you and possibly your child, or b. leave your ass and then you are stuck at 17 being a single mother. Which isn't bad but it's preventable. Trust me, if he is super possesive then that's a major red flag that he could start abusing you. You don't want to procreate with him. Leave him, find you a good guy, date him for a few years, get married, and then have kids. You are still young, live life to the fullest. Don't settle.
quoteI have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in United States
posted 3rd Nov
Quoting ღEvan's Mommyღ:“ Even if you still wanted to TTC, it sounds like the douche that you are dating certainily isn't the fatherly ... [snip!] ... guy, date him for a few years, get married, and then have kids. You are still young, live life to the fullest. Don't settle.”SOOO MANY PPLE NOT TO SETTLE AND I REALLY DONT WANT TO . BUT I'VE SEEN HIM AROUND KIDS AND HES GOOD WITH KIDS . BUT STILL I DONT THINK HES READY
I'm due July 12th & live in Connecticut
posted 3rd Nov
Quoting I Want A Baby Boy!:“ SOOO MANY PPLE NOT TO SETTLE AND I REALLY DONT WANT TO . BUT I'VE SEEN HIM AROUND KIDS AND HES GOOD WITH KIDS . BUT STILL I DONT THINK HES READY”
doesnt matter if he is good with kids those kids go home ur own do not. there 24-7
I'm TTC since March '10, have 2 kids & live in New Mexico
posted 3rd Nov
Quoting !~LUVIN MY BRATS~BASM~!:“ doesnt matter if he is good with kids those kids go home ur own do not. there 24-7”TRUE
I'm due July 12th & live in Connecticut
posted 3rd Nov
Quoting I Want A Baby Boy!:“ SOOO MANY PPLE NOT TO SETTLE AND I REALLY DONT WANT TO . BUT I'VE SEEN HIM AROUND KIDS AND HES GOOD WITH KIDS . BUT STILL I DONT THINK HES READY”doesn't matter if he's good with kids or not. he has to be good with YOU first. If he's a douche and controlling then he is most likely going to become abusive if you continue to put up with it. You don't want to raise a child around that. Trust me, I was raised with an abusive father (he only hit my mother) and that was some of the hardest times in my life, and I was only a little girl. I couldn't do anything to protect my mother and it killed me inside. I would never put a child through anything like that. And if he was to actually hit your baby, how would you feel about that?
I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in United States
posted 3rd Nov
Quoting I Want A Baby Boy!:“ SOOO MANY PPLE NOT TO SETTLE AND I REALLY DONT WANT TO . BUT I'VE SEEN HIM AROUND KIDS AND HES GOOD WITH KIDS . BUT STILL I DONT THINK HES READY”Babysitting is completely different from being a father.
I have 1 child & live in Julian, North Carolina
posted 3rd Nov
Quoting ღEvan's Mommyღ:“ doesn't matter if he's good with kids or not. he has to be good with YOU first. If he's a douche and ... [snip!] ... I would never put a child through anything like that. And if he was to actually hit your baby, how would you feel about that?”I WILL BE COMPLETLY PISSED I DONT WANT THAT I DESREVE BETTER THEN GETTING SLAPPED AROUND BY SOME FUCKING CONTROL FREAK
I'm due July 12th & live in Connecticut
posted 3rd Nov
Quoting I Want A Baby Boy!:“ I WILL BE COMPLETLY PISSED I DONT WANT THAT I DESREVE BETTER THEN GETTING SLAPPED AROUND BY SOME FUCKING CONTROL FREAK”well then there's your answer. leave him! and don't look back. you do deserve better than that. every woman does.
I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in United States
posted 3rd Nov
Quoting ღEvan's Mommyღ:“ well then there's your answer. leave him! and don't look back. you do deserve better than that. every woman does.”
I'm TTC since March '10, have 2 kids & live in New Mexico
