So i need some advice !!

Ok so im new here im 21 yrs old and the mothr of a handsome 2 yr old named MAX !! Hes my world !! His father and i had been together since we were in jr high i got pregnant and everything seemed fine until a another girl who lived in our town showed up at his house saying she was pregnant by him to and the drama started !! We were both having boys and they were born in the same month and ever since my life has been turned up side down i feel so bad for my lil boy to have been brought into this situation that causes so much drama !! I just recently moved my son 3 hrs away from his dad and the drama to try to start fresh now he says he wants to marry his other babby momma and all this just to hurt me i mean this girl has done nothing but make my life hell since day one she much younger than me and very immature !! she even had the nerve to come to the hospitial while i was in labor saying she ws in labor two and she wasnt due for another 4 weeks !! He knows he dosent love her or spend te rest of his life with her they just started being together since we moved and hes still with atleast 2 other girls and everytime i try to tell her she just says im jellous and im lying !! I just dont kno what to do anymore HELP

stay out of it. she will learn the hard way...

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Quoting MaX's EvaN's MommY:“ Ok so im new here im 21 yrs old and the mothr of a handsome 2 yr old named MAX !! Hes my world !! His ... [snip!] ... 2 other girls and everytime i try to tell her she just says im jellous and im lying !! I just dont kno what to do anymore HELP”

You need to remove yourself and your child away from the drama (which you have done). Did yout SO cheat and knock up another girl? Thats low, imo.

Leave well alone and let him get on with it.

It's his problem not yours. Just be the best mum you can be   x

Quoting ♥ Beckie ♥:“ Leave well alone and let him get on with it. It's his problem not yours. Just be the best mum you can be   x”

   

I say leave it alone.... worry about you and your son ..... everyone else's problems are not yours! the best thing you can do for your son is keep him away from all the drama

Wow That is horrible!! I dont know what I would do I feel so bad I hope everythinggets alot better!!!

thanks i try my best to stay out of it !! When we do come down to visit his dad hes allways trying to be with me i tel him no and he sends me texts and all saying he loves me and this that and the other and then when i still refuse he gets on the phone with her for an hr fighting cuz she dosent want me and my son over there when shes not there i think that my son should be able to have one on one time with his dad without her or there child constantly being around there not married so i dont see why she has to be there when hes trying to visit with his so who he only sees twice a month !!

I have a close cousin in the same situation.

One,
it is the ADULTS WHO CREATE THE DRAMA

Two,
If the other child is Max's brother, theyshould know about each other and have a relationship. They both deserve a brother if they have one.

Three,
I commend you for attempting to seperate Max from all that drama. But who, is causing it? The woman, your ex/boyfriend, or you.
Whatever the case may be, whoever responsible for this disfunction should not subject the children to drama. The father should be trying to create a bond between the two boys despite the mothers. Those are BOTH his children. You know, hypothetically.

Thank you all for the advice !! Yes i agree they are brothers and they do need a relationship and they do see each other and play and i did by him christmas presents and birthday presents and have tried my best to make them have a good relationship !! Its starting to become more clear to me that its the boys father that is causing so much of the drama by pulling both us moms in two diffrent directions we have been on good terms before (me and the other baby momma ) im just hopeing for the sake of our kids that we can start having a civil relationship i guess im gonna go with what she dont kno wont hurt her and just keep what i kno to my self from now on !! Thanks so much guys !!