re: People Shouldn't Bash Against Teen Pregnancy!!!!

Quoting Little Davids Mommy:“ He is lucky to have you atleast you try your best to raise him itisextremly hard for me too ,even when ... [snip!] ... sex period was not a good thingi was imature and spoild, but what im trying to say is your wonderfull for not giving up on him”

your son is adorable by the way! he looks like a very happy little man =)

Quoting Fabian's Mommy:“ i couldnt give up on him....hes my life... =) even before he was born....from the time i found out that ... [snip!] ... hopefully well be able to support another too..in the very distant future ofcourse...lol hell be my only one for a long time =)”

just keep updoing what you got to do i think you will make it  i had alot of crap for getting pregnant but i i put it passed me and did what had to do t ake care of him. im glad you never gave up you should never give up on anything   your a great mother

Quoting Fabian's Mommy:“ i couldnt give up on him....hes my life... =) even before he was born....from the time i found out that ... [snip!] ... hopefully well be able to support another too..in the very distant future ofcourse...lol hell be my only one for a long time =)”

just keep updoing what you got to do i think you will make it  i had alot of crap for getting pregnant but i i put it passed me and did what had to do t ake care of him. im glad you never gave up you should never give up on anything   your a great mother

Quoting Fabian's Mommy:“ your son is adorable by the way! he looks like a very happy little man =)”

Thank you so much   your is wayyy cute!

Quoting Little Davids Mommy:“ just keep updoing what you got to do i think you will make it  i had alot of crap for getting pregnant ... [snip!] ... did what had to do t ake care of him. im glad you never gave up you should never give up on anything   your a great mother ”

aww thanks! you seem to be too! must be to have a happy baby! lol thats one thing people always told me...i must be taking good care of him for him to be such a happy baby....lol everyone was really excited for me...they all knew we were TTC....iwas very supported through out it....and i still do....if iwere to ask my dad to buy something for the baby....chances are he would....but id feel like a bad parent because i had to ask ya know? hed do anything for me and his grandbaby....doesnt mean i should depend on him for everything though....i really feel bad when ido ask then that weekend he doesnt go out andwhen i ask why hes like "dont have the money this weekend" its all my fault he didnt get to go out and enjoy himself =( im proud of myself though ive not asked him for anything since SO got a new job! were starting to save up to get our own place too....what really sucks is the car is about to give up on us....and its the only one we have....unless we pay for a new motor for my van....blah...im going to start job hunting monday i believe....try to get in at a daycare....theres tons aroudn here surely one of them is hiring and has an infant room...

Quoting Fabian's Mommy:“ aww thanks! you seem to be too! must be to have a happy baby! lol thats one thing people always told ... [snip!] ... i believe....try to get in at a daycare....theres tons aroudn here surely one of them is hiring and has an infant room...”

Thank you yeah i heard the same   andjust because woman have babys at young ages doesnt mean the arent good mothers i hate when people assume every teenager is not fit to be a mother good luck on finding a job its very hard to find:/. My mom has changed 2 diapers and fed him once! and the whole time me and my boyfriend do everything my mom plays with him and loves him to death but i have asked her about 3 times to watch him for about 30 mins and thats it im very young but i do my responsibilities. im pretty sure your dad doesnt mind helping you   my mom wants to take care of him a whole day but i feel bad for doing that even though she wants too lol it does make you feel bad but i bet your dad is proud of you for trying to doyour best  

Quoting Little Davids Mommy:“ Thank you yeah i heard the same   andjust because woman have babys at young ages doesnt mean the arent ... [snip!] ... that even though she wants too lol it does make you feel bad but i bet your dad is proud of you for trying to doyour best  ”

lol yeah my mom wants to keep him so bad...so does my cousin and my stepsons mom but im still afraid to leave him....and i stress the whole time im away from him anyways....i worry that hes going to cry and they wont be able to figure out whats wrong or that the wont do the bath time routine right or something....lol or that hell just be a monster like he is when i leave him with his daddy...

Quoting Fabian's Mommy:“ lol yeah my mom wants to keep him so bad...so does my cousin and my stepsons mom but im still afraid ... [snip!] ... do the bath time routine right or something....lol or that hell just be a monster like he is when i leave him with his daddy...”

Aww haha yea i worry about the same thing! its like what if they dont dress him right or wash im good and change his diapers enough lol

Quoting !~LUVIN MY BRATS~BASM~!:“ YAY MY POST COUNT GOES UP U JUST ASKED FOR DRAMA i was a teen mom i have never been bashed for it because i dont act like a teen! i act like an adult and a mother!!!!!!!!!”

AMEN!

Quoting Little Davids Mommy:“ Aww haha yea i worry about the same thing! its like what if they dont dress him right or wash im good and change his diapers enough lol”

i know right? im leaving him with a friend tonight and im already stressing about it and its only 11....ive been stressing since 8....lol im not dropping him off til 6...lol BUT itll make it easier to leave him some next week so that i can go find ajob!

Quoting Fabian's Mommy:“ i know right? im leaving him with a friend tonight and im already stressing about it and its only 11....ive ... [snip!] ... 8....lol im not dropping him off til 6...lol BUT itll make it easier to leave him some next week so that i can go find ajob!”

Wen. i have to let him stay with my mom it will be the first time she will have him all day !   ill probally be stressing out on monday haha

Quoting Little Davids Mommy:“ Wen. i have to let him stay with my mom it will be the first time she will have him all day !   ill probally be stressing out on monday haha”

lol im hoping i can still enjoy myself and that my boyfriend can enjoy himself and we wont both be too stressed lol

Quoting !~LUVIN MY BRATS~BASM~!:“ YAY MY POST COUNT GOES UP U JUST ASKED FOR DRAMA i was a teen mom i have never been bashed for it because i dont act like a teen! i act like an adult and a mother!!!!!!!!!”

I second that

Quoting Fabian's Mommy:“ lol im hoping i can still enjoy myself and that my boyfriend can enjoy himself and we wont both be too stressed lol”

  You probally will

Quoting hbaby:“ I'm 16 and pregnant. But I'm going to school, I have good grades, and I'm going to be a good mom. ... [snip!] ... young but are very successful. She's immature, and is obviously not ready for a baby. Not all 16 year olds are like that.  ”

Bitch please.... You aint gone never be shit and you fucked up your life.... like I said in the previous thread. Stop trying to act like having a baby at 16 is ok. This bitches on this site are just trying to be nice to you cause they dont want to hurt your feelings ( and cause your white).... but face it, you ruined you life, your BD is going to leave you and your going to end up on welfare.