I am gonna BET...

Soooo me and my hubbies Anniversary is coming up... My hubby has NEVER and I do mean NEVER done anything for our anniversary, not even made a card or attempted to make the day a special one..infact last year his co-worker had to even remind him it was our anniversary  

So i am making my own personal bet that he wont even mention that its our anniversary again this year and the day will go by with him not even aware that we have been together 8 years lol...And of course as usual i will go all out for him to make him feel speical on this day, just like i do for Fathers Day, his birthday, Christmas which are all other days that i get ignored on...sigh...dont get me wrong, he is a wonderful guy, and Daddy, but it would be nice to be treated a little special on certain days is all...

tell him that...
or dont go all out on certain things and maybe he will notice when you do
sorry mama i wish u a happy anniversary

Quoting 5 Kids And Counting BASM:“ Soooo me and my hubbies Anniversary is coming up... My hubby has NEVER and I do mean NEVER done anything ... [snip!] ... get me wrong, he is a wonderful guy, and Daddy, but it would be nice to be treated a little special on certain days is all...”

Im sorry.
If I were you I wouldnt take him out. And just write ona post it note happy anniversary. lol.
 
but yeah thats not fair  

I know the feeling. I'm in the same boat. I make sure the kids (and I of course) get something/make something for him for every holiday including our anniversary........but I get nothing in return except at Christmas time. Some men are just not as observant. If it bothers you that much then ask him about it. He won't know its bothering you unless you SAY something.

yeah me and DH's is tomorrow I know for a fact he hasn't gotten anything. I have had a super rough pregnancy and him planning something would be nice but he won't. Atleast we know not to get our hopes up...

Quoting Amy♥:“ tell him that... or dont go all out on certain things and maybe he will notice when you do sorry mama i wish u a happy anniversary”

Oh i have told him that, and he always feels bad after the fact but each year comes and goes and nothing changes..i dont want it to seem as though i need him to get me things to make me feel special but hell even a fricken hand made card that he put some effort into would be nice

I forget mine and mine husbands anniversery every year... 

I never understood why guys are like that. My husband isn't, so I am kind of spoiled in that way. Like for valentines day I got a diamond bracelet from jcpenny, a huge pink teddy bear, flowers, and chocolates. I explained to jonathan at the beginning of our relationship how important things like that were to me. Sometimes he just up and brings me home chocolate covered pretzels just because. Did you ever tell him how important it is to you that you feel appreciated. I'm guessing with 5 kids, you might lose sight of how important you are, and he should let you know.

Quoting The boys mom:“ yeah me and DH's is tomorrow I know for a fact he hasn't gotten anything. I have had a super rough pregnancy ... [snip!] ... had a super rough pregnancy and him planning something would be nice but he won't. Atleast we know not to get our hopes up...”

Thats crap.. we know not to but every year we still do!! lol.. thinking, maybe this is the year.. They have no clue how something.. even as simple as a card and planning dinner.. will go with us, its THAT EASY to make us happy.. sheesh.. men!!

Quoting The 3M's mom:“ I know the feeling. I'm in the same boat. I make sure the kids (and I of course) get something/make something ... [snip!] ... not as observant. If it bothers you that much then ask him about it. He won't know its bothering you unless you SAY something.”

LOL but i have said something every year i say how much it hurts that he just ignores the days like they are nothing...like Mother day this year, i had to go out and get his own mother something and made him give it to her...and i didnt get anything...like i usually have my kids make him cards and get him something..make him breakfast in bed that sort of thing..

Quoting 5 Kids And Counting BASM:“ Oh i have told him that, and he always feels bad after the fact but each year comes and goes and nothing ... [snip!] ... him to get me things to make me feel special but hell even a fricken hand made card that he put some effort into would be nice”

Do what I dida few years ago. I made a big calendar poster that I tacked up on the inside of the front door. Then I started marking down the days and had HAPPY ANNIVERSARY in big red letters on Dec 1st. He doesn't forget it now.

Quoting 5 Kids And Counting BASM:“ Soooo me and my hubbies Anniversary is coming up... My hubby has NEVER and I do mean NEVER done anything ... [snip!] ... get me wrong, he is a wonderful guy, and Daddy, but it would be nice to be treated a little special on certain days is all...”

I TOTALLY know how you feel! I have been with Chuck for 5 years and it is that same way. I don't see it getting any better either..

Last night he asked me for sex (I am NEVER in the mood) so I told him that and he said "you are never in the mood" and I told him I am just waiting to surprise him one day.

Because he always tells me, after he doesn't buy me anything for anything, that he is just waiting to surprise me one day. Nice excuse for forgetting!!

I hate it and I am so sorry! I wish just once he would remember with out me reminding him and begging him to do something. Even with begging he doesn't do anything  

Quoting 5 Kids And Counting BASM:“ Oh i have told him that, and he always feels bad after the fact but each year comes and goes and nothing ... [snip!] ... him to get me things to make me feel special but hell even a fricken hand made card that he put some effort into would be nice”

I always got the "sorry babe, I just didnt have time to get or plan anything" UH you had 364 days since the last one you punk a**!!

Quoting KristenCollins:“ I forget mine and mine husbands anniversery every year... ”

I forget my husband's birthday...  

Quoting The boys mom:“ yeah me and DH's is tomorrow I know for a fact he hasn't gotten anything. I have had a super rough pregnancy ... [snip!] ... had a super rough pregnancy and him planning something would be nice but he won't. Atleast we know not to get our hopes up...”

Exactly sigh...even after i have the babies in the hospital i dont even get any flowers or anything   after my last baby MaKenna was born he brought me ins some tulips, i was so happy i thought that he had actually thought about me and all that...well come to find out his boss made him buy them for me lol..