Any Suggestions?

I'm gathering information on the best way to concieve for my older sister.

Her and her husband have been TTC for around 2 years now, and no luck. She is starting to give up hope. And says that it might never happen.

I feel bad for her because she's always wanted the first child out of us siblings. And my brother won't ever have kids and I have already had the first kid and am now pregnant with second. And i feel really bad for her, not being able to fall pregnant.

Are there any tricks that you ladies would be able to share that have worked for you?

She has had her ovaries checked and his sperm is in working order, so everything checks out, just they arent able to for some reason they can't figure out.

I want to help her out by giving her information, and some ideas.

I can't tell her any of my ideas cause I fell pregnant all 3 times while on 3 different types of birth control. So I can't really tell her much from mine.

Tell her to try pre-seed

aparently alot of girls have used it and got pregnant the first cycle!

Has she tried charting at all? It may help her to know her body better, if not. Track her basal body temp, cervical mucous, and know her most fertile days for better chances. It cant hurt!

Quoting Rachael!:“ Has she tried charting at all? It may help her to know her body better, if not. Track her basal body temp, cervical mucous, and know her most fertile days for better chances. It cant hurt!”

Yep shes tried all that. The poor thing. It just wont happen

Sadly, its prolly when they stop trying is when she going to get that suprise suprise.. I mean me and my hubby did lots of things.. we made sure that i was like totally upside down and his men were getting shot right to the top   and i would lay there with my butt elevated and my legs on the wall, but really honestly u wanna know when we got pregnant was when we were living in my truck and we were stressed and we had sex because we pretended we were on a hiking trip and we just had fun with it, and well, i came up prego and well, that wasnt something we thought my husband cud do, b/c he was told he couldnt have kids..

i dont know if she has tried, or if she tells you this much, but changing positions helped a friend of mine. she has a tilted uterus, and the first month they tried things differently, she got pregnant.

Quoting Colleeneverett:“ Sadly, its prolly when they stop trying is when she going to get that suprise suprise.. I mean me and ... [snip!] ... and well, i came up prego and well, that wasnt something we thought my husband cud do, b/c he was told he couldnt have kids..”

So i guess her giving up might actually be the way to go.

Quoting Terrorbox:“ Yep shes tried all that. The poor thing. It just wont happen”

Hmm. Well, I know some people use those cups for menstruation to hold the sperm inside them longer. You just pop it in after sex (before the dribble) and it supposedly helps to keep the goods near the cervix.

Honestly, I was trying for 8 months, and thought I couldnt get pregnant again. I was always stressed cause after the miscarriage, I just wanted another chance to be a parent...It got bad, to where that was all I would think about...so we tried, and tried, and nothing happened the first 6 months of trying to conceive..Well, I gave up....and just went to work...and it was like as soon as I stopped trying to hard and didnt think about it for weeks and weeks at a time...we wound up pregnant,lol...it was awesome   So my advice to you, is just tell her to calm down, and not stress about it....have her put her mind elsewhere....and in the meantime, something should come along her way  

Quoting Rachael!:“ Hmm. Well, I know some people use those cups for menstruation to hold the sperm inside them longer. ... [snip!] ... them longer. You just pop it in after sex (before the dribble) and it supposedly helps to keep the goods near the cervix.”

Hmm that's interesting, I've never heard of that before.

Would you be able to send a link by any chance? Ill add that to my list for her  

I read on a site somewhere that a good thing to try when wanting to get pregnant is to orgasm at the same time so the contractions help carry the sperm on their little merry way.

Quoting MeowMix:“ I read on a site somewhere that a good thing to try when wanting to get pregnant is to orgasm at the same time so the contractions help carry the sperm on their little merry way.”

you know how hard that would be for me and DH? haha he goes so fast.  

UH yeah...we tried for almost 18 months and the first month we gave up after my 3rd m/c i got pregnant. i know when i conceived both of my children b/c they were the only two nights in me and hubby's relationship that the sex was bad and I didnt want it....but gave it!! HAHAHHA!!

Quoting Harlee's Mama!:“ you know how hard that would be for me and DH? haha he goes so fast.  ”

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If anyone was to hear mine and my DH sexy time before I got pregnant you would of heard a bunch of Hold on's and okay go's.....lol

Quoting MeowMix:“ lol If anyone was to hear mine and my DH sexy time before I got pregnant you would of heard a bunch of Hold on's and okay go's.....lol”

LOL