re: I need help understanding. I don't want to be a under-educat

Quoting HaleighAlexandria:“ ugggh ppls opinions get on my damn nerves!!! i swear, ppl honestly dont care about helping you... they want to make you feel like an idiot.. and i hate those STUCK UP BITCHES!!!!!”

And you saying something like this, where as I'm giving constructive critisim, helps the OP how?

Nice to know me giving advice and NOT being a bitch is being stuck up...

Quoting HaleighAlexandria:“ ugggh ppls opinions get on my damn nerves!!! i swear, ppl honestly dont care about helping you... they want to make you feel like an idiot.. and i hate those STUCK UP BITCHES!!!!!”

Yeah, every post I post I have women bitching about something. Drama drama drama :b

Quoting 2nd times a charm?:“ And you saying something like this, where as I'm giving constructive critisim, helps the OP how? Nice to know me giving advice and NOT being a bitch is being stuck up...”

whatever she can hate me. Im being a bitch. so what? anyone who has talked to me on BG knows im not stuck-up. But i think the OP is naive and will argue this until shes blue in the face.

Quoting Jennifer Nicolle (::“ Yeah, every post I post I have women bitching about something. Drama drama drama :b”

hmmmm did you ever think one of them had a valid point?

Quoting Smashley&Laila:“ i could give a flying fuck if you think your answers are good or not. it just proves your immaturity”

You're a great mom I'm sure. And I can be too... and your criticism wont take that away from me.

Quoting 2nd times a charm?:“ And you saying something like this, where as I'm giving constructive critisim, helps the OP how? Nice to know me giving advice and NOT being a bitch is being stuck up...”

i was having her back. i know how it feels to have people telling u what u should do.. andmy advice to you is to either help her or not reply. she is TTC as much as you think ur advice might help her it wont..

Quoting Smashley&Laila:“ hmmmm did you ever think one of them had a valid point?”

Oh I believe all of you do. But you dont know me. Only I do. And my boyfriend. And I'm ready. Beleive it or dont. Either way. Ill bring a child into this world. And he/she will be happy, fully taken care of, and loved in every way.

u arent HER mother.. ive had ppl tell me its tough and other ppl tell me its not as bad as everyone makes it out to be..

Quoting Jennifer Nicolle (::“ Oh I believe all of you do. But you dont know me. Only I do. And my boyfriend. And I'm ready. Beleive ... [snip!] ... or dont. Either way. Ill bring a child into this world. And he/she will be happy, fully taken care of, and loved in every way.”

Im sure you will bring a baby into this world. but being somebody who looking back can see the many many changes I have gone through since i was 18, I can tell you, even though you wont regret your child, you will for sure wonder why you didnt wait. so yeah good luck with that. i said before i know you'll do it anyway. but im not going to give an 18 year old a pat on the back for purposely getting pregnant being that i know 18 year olds arent as prepared for the real world as they think they are.

Quoting HaleighAlexandria:“ u arent HER mother.. ive had ppl tell me its tough and other ppl tell me its not as bad as everyone makes it out to be..”

 .... are you joking me right now?

r u joking???

Quoting HaleighAlexandria:“ r u joking???”

LOL, im bored now. your fighting like a child. night kids

Since this is a TTC thread, not the drama thread......

I've been going to the library and reading some good books. Taking control of your fertility is a great resource, recommend trying that one. Their is also lots of good info on fertilityfriend.com. It is good when you are first starting out to do some own research, then the rest of us TTCers can help you any specific questions you have after that.

Oh and don't forget to test and update us once AF is due.

hey OP I just noticed you live in Athens..I'm about an hour from there!

Quoting Jennifer Nicolle (::“ Oh I believe all of you do. But you dont know me. Only I do. And my boyfriend. And I'm ready. Beleive ... [snip!] ... or dont. Either way. Ill bring a child into this world. And he/she will be happy, fully taken care of, and loved in every way.”

YOUR NOT READY! it is physically IMPOSSIBLE for an 18 year old, ANY 18 year old to be in the mind set to be a mother, your brain in not done fully maturing until the age of 21, seriously...take a child phycology or child development as its called at some schools...once again I'm not being an ass, I'm currently in the class myself and you would be astonished and amazed at the things you will learn, it will HELP you be a better mother.