re: 3yrs ago today.....

Quoting Susie expecting # 2!!!:“ wow thatnks! i dont have anyone in "my circle" that has experienced this. I always feel like i'm going at it alone”

I know exactly what you mean. No one understands unless they've been there. I'm basically avoided by most of my friends; I guess they just don't know how to act around me. Day by day, though, that's all you can do. Thank God I have my dd. I wouldn't be able to do this without her.

Quoting azazaz:“ I know exactly what you mean. No one understands unless they've been there. I'm basically avoided by ... [snip!] ... to act around me. Day by day, though, that's all you can do. Thank God I have my dd. I wouldn't be able to do this without her.”

Omg same here. If it weren't for my son I would have totally lost it!

Quoting Susie expecting # 2!!!:“ Omg same here. If it weren't for my son I would have totally lost it!”

Yeah, I would either be in a straight-jacket somewhere or dead. That sounds awful, but it's the truth. I would not be this strong without my child.

Quoting Susie expecting # 2!!!:“ i'm so sorry. it's been 5 months for us. i'd love to tell you it gets easier, but sadly it doesnt”

so not happy but am glade an notthe only one
an ivan is not the only one with out a dad mmm
i dont get any help form his parents just my parents am 18 an he was 19 when h past way it was his brithday

im so sorry for your loss, i cant imagine the pain of losing my husband, you are a strong woman!!