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I feel so icky having sex now...and it's affecting our relationship...I'm just not confident anymore..I don't know how to get my confidence back. *sigh*
I went from feeling super confident to zero confidence. I feel like my SO lost interest & I was really good at keeping him interested, even while pregnant..:/

You just posted this..

Yeah, I'm having that problem now but pregnant... ugh. Sometimes I think he just pretends to be interested. I have to come on to him now, instead of him trying to get me in bed! So this sucks.

Quoting Bugs Mommy:“ You just posted this..”

I know, I didn't know which category it should go under, is there a way to delete posts?

Quoting -Jacobi-*(36WEEKS)*:“ Yeah, I'm having that problem now but pregnant... ugh. Sometimes I think he just pretends to be interested. I have to come on to him now, instead of him trying to get me in bed! So this sucks.”

maybe he's uncomfortable because he thinks he'll disturb the baby, I hear its common for a guy to feel that way..

Quoting AndyZombie |team blue|:“ maybe he's uncomfortable because he thinks he'll disturb the baby, I hear its common for a guy to feel that way..”

I've asked him that, but he said that didn't bother him. I've told him before that it's okay and he won't hurt the baby, or the baby won't know what we're doing. But I think it's something else, I look TOTALLY different pregnant, I'm a big balloon, my face doesn't even look the same, I'm just chubby.. So what makes you not feel confident anymore?

Quoting -Jacobi-*(36WEEKS)*:“ I've asked him that, but he said that didn't bother him. I've told him before that it's okay and he ... [snip!] ... I'm a big balloon, my face doesn't even look the same, I'm just chubby.. So what makes you not feel confident anymore?”

His loss..
Well, I'm pretty insecure about my stomach. During pregnancy, it got dark around my belly button and now, it's SUPER dark since my skin isnt stretched anymore. I hate it. I feel like I look like crap also because I dont put effort into getting ready unless I have to bring Aiden out

Quoting AndyZombie |team blue|:“ Ifeel so icky having sex now...and it's affecting our relationship...I'm just not confident anymore..I ... [snip!] ... to zero confidence. I feel like my SO lost interest & I was really good at keeping him interested, even while pregnant..:/”

I guess before I had my baby I was feeling that it was going to happen like you described. I had a C-section and the medications made me loose my appitite I was wanting sex bad. It's the condoms that are making me really dislike sex. I hate condoms...