re: forgiveness

Quoting skramer182:“ kinda long story but cut really short i told her new bf (fling) that she had an abortion with her last ... [snip!] ... thought it was aimed at her. honestly i just think she wants to hate me, and i wish she would just admit it so i can move on.”

 
Oh my.....

Quoting skramer182:“ i just got done with my last attempt and im trying to think about how long i should wait. i dont think ... [snip!] ... way of just making you feel like shit forever. she calls me her fucking family...how am i supposed to walk away from that?”

Can I ask why you would do something like that??

Quoting skramer182:“ i just got done with my last attempt and im trying to think about how long i should wait. i dont think ... [snip!] ... way of just making you feel like shit forever. she calls me her fucking family...how am i supposed to walk away from that?”

Family doesn't treat family like that. So it should be fairly easy. Sounds like she just enjoys making someone feel bad. That's not a good friend. That's someone waiting for you to screw up again so they can throw it all back at you and prove to themselves it was okay to treat you like that.

Some people can honestly and truly forgive and put it behind them and some people it's harder for.

Quoting Suzie *Stop Abuse*:“ Can I ask why you would do something like that??”

well like i saiiiiddd

i didnt know that he didnt know, it was kind of a slip of tongue and i didnt know it was a big secret...(mind you i really am very sorry for it) we were kinda on rough terms because i posted a note on fb. claiming the fact that i am prolife. i got really fed up with people coming up to me ranting about prolife, and blahblahblah. the note had nothing to do with her. she comes up to me and asks if its about her because she trusted me when she got hers, i was there for her blahblahblah and now im "judging" her. well she took it totally the wrong way, i was there for her when she got it, but before she got it i told her i thought it would be a bad idea.

annnnyyyywaaayyyyy

more shortened long story, shortly after that she thought i was cheating on my SO with her ex, and told her new bf of 2 months. i told him she was wrong and he was like, why are you guys fighting, what does she have against you?
and i said oh that note i wrote on facebook pissed her off because she took it personally and thought i was writing about her....(oops)
(they had both responded to the same note)



trust me i had NO idea it was a big secret. i would NEVER betray someone like that purposely, even if i were completely mad at them.