Is the wrong of me?

Sorry if this is long,
So, me and my fiance want to get our daughter, Kayleen,who is 3 months old baptized soon. He came here from Mexico about 4 years ago, he only came here with his dad,a couple uncles, and cousins. His mom, 3 sisters, and the rest of his family are still living inMexico. His familys religion is strictly catholic, my family is lutheran. I'm not even typically the type of person to attend church. Earlier he brought up that he wants to have Kayleen baptized here in the United States in my familys religion but send her to Mexico in April to get her baptized catholic-ly.

I told him that i think she's too young to be traveling, especially to a different country and that i really dont want her to go, YET. He got super mad at me saying, "well if it was your family and blahblah you would want her to go." and now he wont talk to me about it and is only saying "well if it was your family and i didnt want her to go, you would get mad too."

He really has no common sense how serious going out of the country really could be. She'll be 9 months in April, but would you let your child go to a different country without you?

Thanks for reading.

Why not you all go instead of sending her?

Quoting AHNA mami:“ Sorry if this is long, So, me and my fiance want to get our daughter, Kayleen,who is 3 months old baptized ... [snip!] ... be. She'll be 9 months in April, but would you let your child go to a different country without you? Thanks for reading.”

FUCKING YEAH RIGHT! I'd let him sulk all he wants. It would not happen if i were you.

Why can't you just go with her?

I would go with my child to Mexico if I were you.

Quoting Meep:“ Why not you all go instead of sending her?”

He has to stay here because of work but i could go, i guess its just the cost of the trip. I'm kinda nervous about going there too though without him.

Quoting Meep:“ Why not you all go instead of sending her?”

agree, why not all go

I wouldn't go and I definitely wouldn't let her go without me.

Quoting AHNA mami:“ He has to stay here because of work but i could go, i guess its just the cost of the trip. I'm kinda nervous about going there too though without him.”

Just tell him you really want to go..as soon as you can all go together.

Quoting AHNA mami:“ He has to stay here because of work but i could go, i guess its just the cost of the trip. I'm kinda nervous about going there too though without him.”

I'm sure he could get some time off. He gets his daughter baptized, you get to stay with her. You both win.

Go to a different country without me? HELL NO.

I wouldn't even let her go next door without me. Hell to the no. No no no lol.

Quoting AHNA mami:“ He has to stay here because of work but i could go, i guess its just the cost of the trip. I'm kinda nervous about going there too though with him

Well, in that case..IDK then i def. wouldn't let her go by herself..but it seems really important to your SO. so, maybe you should just go? at least you will be with her 

I can go with her, I guess i'm just nervous to go by myself without him.

One of my points, I just would rather wait until she was older but hes pretty stubborn-minded.

I would go with her..

Quoting SaRA[ALiCiA]:“ Well, in that case..IDK then i def. wouldn't let her go by herself..but it seems really important to your SO. so, maybe you should just go? at least you will be with her ”

It is really important to him, and i was thinking about maybe just going? just the fact of going to a diff country makes me nervous though. Ive never really taveled anywhere besides Arizona twice.