just alittle vent

my bf wants to have a kid, i'm only 17 & he's 23. i can understand why because he's getting older. i wanna have kids with him but sometimes i want to know but when we fight & argue , and he gets mad for no reason makes me think how we going to have a kid if all he wants to do is argue or nothing. for example i went to my friends house for halloween & just watched scary movies all night. it wasn't a party like music and dancing just about 10 people watching movies. he flipped out but he's upsate in BuffaloNY partying with his college buddies like wtf ?! i can't do shit without him thinking i'm doing something grimey. we live 9 hours away but i never cheated on any bf no matter how far they are. i don't want to have kids with him if he's gonna think i'm out doing him grimey. idk maybe it'ssomething i'm doing but idkk

i hate to say but usually when someone acts like that hinting at someone being up to no good, its usually because they are the one doing it.


anyway you have plenty of time to havea kid. i dont think it would be a great idea in what seems to be a rocky relationship and you being so young

Quoting Carrie.Rebekah:“ i hate to say but usually when someone acts like that hinting at someone being up to no good, its usually ... [snip!] ... of time to havea kid. i dont think it would be a great idea in what seems to be a rocky relationship and you being so young”

Well he does alot of good things for me too, when we're together it's all good but i think it's more of being away from each other personally . i haven't seen him since our year anniversary weekend. ( aug 6- 10) so i really miss him ALOT ! but he always tells me " let's have a kid i'm ready i wanna be able to run around with him/her and enjoy it" i deff want to me a mom but not right now i'm gonna graduate in 7 months. & will be going to college for 2 years so maybe in 2 or 3 years i/ll be ready.

Quoting liv loves chris:“ Well he does alot of good things for me too, when we're together it's all good but i think it's more ... [snip!] ... right now i'm gonna graduate in 7 months. & will be going to college for 2 years so maybe in 2 or 3 years i/ll be ready.”

and there is your answer shuga!.

Quoting Carrie.Rebekah:“ i hate to say but usually when someone acts like that hinting at someone being up to no good, its usually ... [snip!] ... of time to havea kid. i dont think it would be a great idea in what seems to be a rocky relationship and you being so young”

    

Quoting Isla'sMomma:“ and there is your answer shuga!.”

I know but I'm just impatient. lol I'm counting down the days till I turn 18 & graduation.

I don't want to rush things, I was pregnant by him last year ):

Quoting liv loves chris:“ I know but I'm just impatient. lol I'm counting down the days till I turn 18 & graduation. I don't want to rush things, I was pregnant by him last year ):”

and you have an angel baby. things happen for a reason. (i know people hate when others say it, but i beleive its true!)
So i'd wait.  

Quoting Isla'sMomma:“ and you have an angel baby. things happen for a reason. (i know people hate when others say it, but i beleive its true!) So i'd wait.  ”

We are, but idk he just pisses me off sometimes. lol
I do love him & don't get me wrong he does treat me great. but he is an ass hole

Quoting livvie:“ We are, but idk he just pisses me off sometimes. lol I do love him & don't get me wrong he does treat me great. but he is an ass hole”

He is a boy ;)

Quoting Isla'sMomma:“ He is a boy ;)”

Yeah lol.
I think it's cute how we talk about baby names, but then I think we've moving to fast because of the fact I'm so young & we're both in different part of our lives. He graduated college & I'm just about to graduate high school.

Quoting livvie:“ Yeah lol. I think it's cute how we talk about baby names, but then I think we've moving to fast ... [snip!] ... so young & we're both in different part of our lives. He graduated college & I'm just about to graduate high school.”

Thats true. My b.f and I are on the same track.. He is 24 and Im 20.. both graduated highschool. We both work fulltime jobs and saving up for college.. We have one child and plan on having another one here right away!.
But out of all honesty there is somedays where I can just choke him out.. haha.

Quoting Isla'sMomma:“ Thats true. My b.f and I are on the same track.. He is 24 and Im 20.. both graduated highschool. We ... [snip!] ... plan on having another one here right away!. But out of all honesty there is somedays where I can just choke him out.. haha.”

Awww (: