Insecure.....

Any advice would be appreciated..

My fiance' and I have been together for a little over 3 years and we are expecting our first child in March. My concern is, recently he has been viewing porn and more or less pleasing himself.This is something new for him. I don't know if it my pregnancy moodiness or not, but I feel that he has become quite distant. We have been arguing about this for over a week now and I am growing more and more insecure. I just feel like I turn him off because my increasing size, I am just so confused and feel so alone.

Might be that he doesnt want to bother you or have you turn him down. maybe have a chat with him about it so it can be sorted out.

Not a big deal.

He probably is just creeped out by the fact you have a baby inside you. Perhaps he thinks it can feel or hear or sense you guys having sex or something.
Which is not true.

Why don't you ask him about it?

My hubby was never interested in me sexually while pregnant although he always told me I was beautiful, so I can empathize with you.I finally after 3 kids found out that he felt as though he was going to hurt the baby or me, and that he felt dirty like a little person was watching.You two will continue to be distant until you open up the communications with him-allow him to explain how he feels.Trust you me, the minute I delivered he was interested again,lol.Sorry Mama.

Some guys get freaked out with sex when the girl is pregnant. My SO has been through it enough times for him to be ok with it, but my sex drive is lacking now a days and he watches porn at times. lol

Guys gotta do what they gotta do. It's a little unfair to restrict them just because we don't want to have sex.

My DH and I only had sex 3 times while I was pregnant and they were all before I was 3 months he just felt weird and he also said I was bigger and that part hurt my feelings so bad but I got over it I know that men don't have feelings lol

Quoting Mommy's Miracle:“ Any advice would be appreciated.. My fiance' and I have been together for a little over 3 years and ... [snip!] ... more and more insecure. I just feel like I turn him off because my increasing size, I am just so confused and feel so alone.”

it is totally normal for men to look at porn, unlike women who often masterbate for pleasure, men often use masterbation as a way to relieve stress and tension. The act causes them to feel more relaxed. Many men masterbate more while there SO is pregnant. Don't feel insecure about it. Its not you in the least. I sure he's still as attracted to you as ever, only in a different way and probably doesnt know how to express it or how he feels. Personally I just let my hubby dont his deed and leave it at that.My SO is alwaysmore relaxed after and appreciates that I dont bug him about it.Be open with him about it, but try not to be confronting.

Remember your hormones are different, men react when womens hormones change. Many men have trouble dealing with the hormonal imbalance and shy away from the women during pregnancy. Keep the communication lines open and welcome him to express his feelings with open arms, open mind and an open loving heart.

I am just soooo extremely insecure. We still continued to have sex up until a week ago when I approached him about the porn incident. He gets extremely offensive and blows up every time I try to talk about it.My insecurities have grown so bad, I will not even get undressed in front of him and I make sure that I am fully dressed before he wakes. I am terrified at what this is doing to us.