My husband is going back to his old disgusting self.

me and my husband are seperated right now. and he has now been slowly turning into his old self....he got the rest of his whjole arm tattooed with a cup with a screw and "purple stuff" dripping out of it and 100 dollar bills and then the next day showed up to my apartment wearing a hat just like his best friend does with the astros star on it and has our kids fucking name tattooed on his neck. then a couple of days later he comes to take us out to eat and has his hand tattooed with the old rockets symbol. it is ridiculous and im becoming so unnatracted to him. Then on halloween he was supposed to come with us to the church thing that me and my family were taking hunter too and he suddenly had a bad day and called me and said he wouldnt be coming he was just going to go to his friends house and get wasted untill he couldnt move to forget about the day. then today he calls me acting like hes done nothing wrong and wants to go to a movie with me or some dumb shit. i just dont know what to do about him anymore. I found out hes been popping codine pills on a reg. basis. The only thing that doesnt make him the same person that he use to be is that hes not running around with guns and robbing people. pretty sooni think hes going to end up getting kicked out of the army.

Wow.....Hmm I think I would bea lot more than seperated.

wow...thats pretty good that you guys are separated right now then

you can't change a person... he has to want to change himself. and if he is happy with who he is you're gonna have to get over it and either accept him or move on.

Quoting hunters mommy =]:“ me and my husband are seperated right now. and he has now been slowly turning into his old self....he ... [snip!] ... hes not running around with guns and robbing people. pretty sooni think hes going to end up getting kicked out of the army.”

I can think of a lot better ways to spend that money then on all those tats..

I think seperation is a great idea.

Quoting Jackie777:“ Wow.....Hmm I think I would bea lot more than seperated.”

lol. im getting to that point. its becoming ridiculous. he is with his friends every day and the night he chose to watch our son he went out with his friends and spent that night at his friends house like he does every night and left our son with his mom after he went to bed.

Quoting LUV333:“ you can't change a person... he has to want to change himself. and if he is happy with who he is you're gonna have to get over it and either accept him or move on.”

yea im realizing that now. it all started when he started hanging out with his old best friend when his friend got out of jail

Quoting hunters mommy =]:“ me and my husband are seperated right now. and he has now been slowly turning into his old self....he ... [snip!] ... hes not running around with guns and robbing people. pretty sooni think hes going to end up getting kicked out of the army.”

totally off topic but codine pills ar great...there is a reason y hes taking them...but anyways...It seems like your a sort of drug-free person....so its understandable that your upset...however...you and him are seperated so he probably is going to be care free....I think tats on necks are sexy but sometimes look real ghetto...obviously though he is sort of a good man if he didnt do any of this stuff when he was with you...at least you know he is willing to change...but just talk to him about the tats and tell him maybe to slow down a little on some of the things he is doing b cuz you still love him and want things to work out for the better but if he is going to slip back into those ways chances are slimming up

Quoting KARLiE'S M0MMiE [BBM]:“ totally off topic but codine pills ar great...there is a reason y hes taking them...”

 

I think i'd be heading in the divorce direction..actually I know I would be but I hope you figure out whats best for you good luck

Quoting MaineMommy:“   I think i'd be heading in the divorce direction..actually I know I would be but I hope you figure out whats best for you good luck”

everyone has their own opinions...

Wow im suprised the mili hasnt caught him "popping" pills yet, good luck.

Quoting KARLiE'S M0MMiE [BBM]:“ totally off topic but codine pills ar great...there is a reason y hes taking them...but anyways...It ... [snip!] ... love him and want things to work out for the better but if he is going to slip back into those ways chances are slimming up”

yea after i got pregnant i stopped doing drugs. when you have kids you shouldnt be going around popping pills and shit. i didnt marry or get together with my husband when he was tattoed from head to toe so yea its disgusting.

Quoting NavyWife & Mommy:“ Wow im suprised the mili hasnt caught him "popping" pills yet, good luck.”

i was fixing to say the same thing.