To anybody who was following my story...
4672 postsposted 1st Nov
Just to let anybody who was following my story know, i didnt go through with the abortion!
The day came for my appt to take my bloods and i just never showed up because i hadnt told my family the news yet so i felt like i couldnt go through with it without them knowing. about half hour after i was due at the appt i got a call from a lady who worked there. She was very rude asking where i was and i need to go or i cant have it done etc etc and at the time i was still debating my decision and she basically was said its now or never, the way she spoke to me was AWFUL!
To be honest i still dont particularly want this baby but there is no way i want people like that woman dealing with me as i go through such a hard time in my life.
sorry if this doesnt make much sense i rushed
quoteThe day came for my appt to take my bloods and i just never showed up because i hadnt told my family the news yet so i felt like i couldnt go through with it without them knowing. about half hour after i was due at the appt i got a call from a lady who worked there. She was very rude asking where i was and i need to go or i cant have it done etc etc and at the time i was still debating my decision and she basically was said its now or never, the way she spoke to me was AWFUL!
To be honest i still dont particularly want this baby but there is no way i want people like that woman dealing with me as i go through such a hard time in my life.
sorry if this doesnt make much sense i rushed
I have 1 child & live in United Kingdom
18313 postsposted 1st Nov
Quoting .C.:“ Just to let anybody who was following my story know, i didnt go through with the abortion! The day came ... [snip!] ... like that woman dealing with me as i go through such a hard time in my life. sorry if this doesnt make much sense i rushed”
So no abortion. Congrats!
But you dont want the baby? Are you planning on adopting out then?
Good luck!
I have 2 kids & 4 angel babies & live in Iowa
posted 1st Nov
Quoting HAMommy™:“ So no abortion. Congrats! But you dont want the baby? Are you planning on adopting out then? Good luck!”
no i will most likely keep the baby, after all you can never regret a baby once he/she is here right?
I have 1 child & live in United Kingdom
15891 postsposted 1st Nov
Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I went through an abortion and trust me, YOU DO NOT want to do it unless you are 150% sure its what you want.
The guilt is sooo hard to live with.
Hugs to you girl!!!
quoteI went through an abortion and trust me, YOU DO NOT want to do it unless you are 150% sure its what you want.
The guilt is sooo hard to live with.
Hugs to you girl!!!
I'm due July 25th, have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Watsontown, Pennsylvania
posted 1st Nov
Quoting .C.:“ no i will most likely keep the baby, after all you can never regret a baby once he/she is here right?”
well, that depends on you though.
some do.
Good luck mama!! Congrats on your pregnancy and decision!!
I have 2 kids & 4 angel babies & live in Iowa
17630 postsposted 1st Nov
Quoting .C.:“ no i will most likely keep the baby, after all you can never regret a baby once he/she is here right?”
Thats up to you of course mama, but with that kind of attitude im sure you will fall in love right away. i wasnt sure i was ready for my son. but i warmed up to the idea over time and love him unconditionally now. i couldnt imagine my life without him.
Have you ever seen the movie Waitress? I think you should.
I'm trying to adopt since October '09, have 7 kids & live in Texas
84 postsposted 1st Nov
It is good that you have decided to keep your baby. abortion is permanent and for the rest of your life you will always had been a mother to a child that never got to live. Abortion never changes that. It is hard raising one or twenty kids. But somehow if we are tenacious enough and never give up are kids have a great life. they all complain about us at some point probably teen years but when they are adults their is nothing like their childhood days. Well, Godd luck to you and your family.
quoteI'm due June 17th, have 2 kids & 8 angel babies & live in Raleigh, North Carolina
posted 1st Nov
Quoting .C.:“ Choosing life is always better.My aunt made the choice of open adoption and since its open she still gets to watch her child grow and recieve pictures .You also get to look at profiles and choose the couple yourself. A couple i know have been on the adoption list for years waiting to adopt,but the agency says theres always a shortage of babies.
I have 2 kids & live in North Carolina
146 postsposted 1st Nov
Congratulations, trust yourself and things will work out right! Best wishes to you and your family!
quoteI have 1 child & live in Hungary
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10374 postsposted 4th Nov
Quoting .C.:“ no i will most likely keep the baby, after all you can never regret a baby once he/she is here right?”
yes you can
I live in ?
posted 4th Nov
Quoting Tanya Beacham:“ ”
not true. There's no shortage of babies. There's just a shortage of babies that couples find acceptable.
I live in ?
posted 4th Nov
Quoting .C.:“ no i will most likely keep the baby, after all you can never regret a baby once he/she is here right?”Just like Drizzle said...Its all about your attitude. Yes this may not have been what you were expecting, but that dosent mean this baby has to be unwanted or regreted. I doubt that you regret your daughter looking at her now...Just think this baby will also grow up just like your daughter is and this baby is yours just as much as she is.
I have 2 kids & live in Arizona
812 postsposted 7th Nov
Quoting .C.:“ Just to let anybody who was following my story know, i didnt go through with the abortion! The day came ... [snip!] ... like that woman dealing with me as i go through such a hard time in my life. sorry if this doesnt make much sense i rushed”
I had an abortion last tuesday (my first and ONLY one) and the nurses were so rude to me I felt like I was just an inconvience.. Every minute of it was so horrible. God bless you for deciding not to do it.. I know your baby will be very thankful.
I have 1 child & live in Tennessee
