So this is uncomfortable....

I Have a 3 1/2 year old and me and my husband have been a little problem lately.. randomly he will be like laughing and say whats this and we say what and hes got a lil bonner.. and were like what ?? trying to ignore it and hes like whats wrong with my pee pee its funny. and we dont know what to say we are deff weirded out by it and uncomfortable about the whole thingg some one please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

that happens to my son usually when he has to pee

omg!!!! my almost 4 yo nephew came out of the bathroom with one the other day!!! he didnt realize i dont think.. but he messed his pants so he nakey and i was like natalie your kid has a boner!!!! lol.

Just say it happens to boys.

You have to sit down and explain it to him. It's natural and it happens and it's going to keep happening. It's your job to let him know there is nothing wrong with him. You don't have to give him exact details, but answer his questions.

i have a almost 4 year old and this happens to him to. Our approach is to say "That happens to boys sometimes, put it away now" and change the subject. Its important to make sure he is ok with it and not embarrassed by it. My son said 'why does it do it?" and we just said "thats the way mother nature made boys" .

Quoting Zombie+Monster [EBFB]:“ You have to sit down and explain it to him. It's natural and it happens and it's going to keep happening. ... [snip!] ... your job to let him know there is nothing wrong with him. You don't have to give him exact details, but answer his questions.”

  

if he's not getting answers from you, he'll probably ask other people.

Just say its a boy muscle, and it needs to exercise. It needs to get big and strong, just like his fingers.

Thats what I told my 3 sons - just normal everyday chitter chatter - don't get weirded out - just think of a creative answer but never ignore your sons communication with you! This is Sexual Education and you dont want him to feel he can't ask you anything he needs too.....................you have to be a cool mom, so talk about EVERYTHING as he asks about it!!!!

Quoting Kristin&&Ava:“    if he's not getting answers from you, he'll probably ask other people.”

Yea, my friends son asked me what queef meant yesterday

Quoting Zombie+Monster [EBFB]:“ You have to sit down and explain it to him. It's natural and it happens and it's going to keep happening. ... [snip!] ... your job to let him know there is nothing wrong with him. You don't have to give him exact details, but answer his questions.”

Yeah - but you don't have to sit him down, just have a normal chit chat - like you normally talk to him, don't actually take and plop him down and give him a lecture. GAWD - just roll with it, keep it casual, and address the question as simply as you can.............like its no big deal.....

Quoting cougar-prowler:“ Yeah - but you don't have to sit him down, just have a normal chit chat - like you normally talk to ... [snip!] ... GAWD - just roll with it, keep it casual, and address the question as simply as you can.............like its no big deal.....”

Did I say to lecture him?

I'm telling the OP to stop being embarrassed by it and let her son know it's normal.

that you guyss all soo much :-D i will dff explain that next time to him, n ur right he shouldnt be embarassed by it i dont want him to feel uncomfortable either... im soo glad i asked everyonee. I have had this site for a while but i kinda forgot about it and havent been on in like 2 months and when this problem came about i was like ill go on gaga the moms will know what to do :-D im soo happy i came on for advice <3 thank youu guyss xox