I need your help

how do i delete these old postim totally new and i have no idea how these work? thanks

first u must have the child

Do not put his name on the birth certificate, but if you do this then you will never be able to get any court ordered child support.

You could give custody to your parents right away.

DON'T put him on the birth certificate/have him sign a declaration of paternity and it'll be a much longer process for him....
And file for full custody right away.

Quoting mandamarie♥:“ first u must have the child”

lol i knoe i just wanted to get prepared  

File a police report every time he touches you so that you have it against him if he ever wants to take you to court for custody. But first & foremost, leave him.

ETA: I meant so you have IT against him, not me. Haha Although I will come kick his butt if you want me too.  

The next time he lays a hand on you, file a police report and a restraining order, this will show a pattern of abuse if he ever tries to take it to court.

The others have said to leave him off the birth certificate, while that makes it a longer fight for him to obtain rights, it also makes it a longer fight for you to get child support from him.

My advice would be to file for sole custody, with supervised access and child support as soon as the child is born. In your application, state that supervised access is required because of a history of mental and physical abuse.

Quoting -*-Kristen-*-:“ Do not put his name on the birth certificate, but if you do this then you will never be able to get any court ordered child support. ”

that would be fine lol
can he demand a paternity test?

Quoting -*-Kristen-*-:“ Do not put his name on the birth certificate, but if you do this then you will never be able to get any court ordered child support. ”

that would be fine lol
can he demand a paternity test?

Break up with him, and don't put anyone on the birth certificate. If he tries to get near you or the baby you can file a restraining order and/or just take him to court saying you want to file for full custody.You can call the cops now and file something against him to keep him away from you and the baby when she's born. File something with the police for the abuse.

Quoting Girl.On.The.Wayy:“ that would be fine lol can he demand a paternity test?”

He can request a paternity test and you will have to comply.

Quoting speaktruth2powr:“ The next time he lays a hand on you, file a police report and a restraining order, this will show a pattern ... [snip!] ... child is born. In your application, state that supervised access is required because of a history of mental and physical abuse.”

thanks for all the advice so helpful
the only reason im worried to file a report is cause last time he grabbed he tried jerking me outta my car so i punched him   i believe it was deserved can he use that against me?

Quoting speaktruth2powr:“ He can request a paternity test and you will have to comply.”

damn!
okay well thank you so much for your answers  

Quoting Girl.On.The.Wayy:“ thanks for all the advice so helpful the only reason im worried to file a report is cause last time ... [snip!] ... last time he grabbed he tried jerking me outta my car so i punched him   i believe it was deserved can he use that against me?”

It's self defense. It can't be used against you at all.

Quoting Girl.On.The.Wayy:“ thanks for all the advice so helpful the only reason im worried to file a report is cause last time ... [snip!] ... last time he grabbed he tried jerking me outta my car so i punched him   i believe it was deserved can he use that against me?”

By not filing a police report, it can be dangerous to your baby specially if he is jerking you around and such. I'd file a report, asap! & I think it would just be taken as protecting yourself.