Just curious. I'm sure a lot of you have had to make that choice before. What was your situation? How you know, find out?

I have... I doubt I'd ever do it again. I undrstand people make "mistakes" but usually they never learn.

Oh and I found out cause I hacked his myspace cause I'd had my doubts.

i would never.

I said Maybe. I have in the past, but I don't know if I would now. I told him I forgave him for his mistakes in the past but I can't let it happen again, so I dunno. Part of me thinks I would because we've been together so long and I love him so much, but part of me wonders if I could actually do it.

Nope
My best friend's husband is having an affair right now and from the outside of the situation looking in, I KNOW that it may hurt so bad now but once you leave them and move on, it'll be so much better so much faster.

When I was in high school I took my ex-boyfriend back, but I didn't have very much self-respect back then -- so I voted no.

I don't think I could mentally. I would want to but I would probably never trust him.

Quoting care bear[+4]:“ Just curious. I'm sure a lot of you have had to make that choice before. What was your situation? How you know, find out?”

I wasn't going to. But I did. It's getting easier each day.

Only if he had a gun to his head and was forced to cheat on me for his life.

Otherwise, no.

I took my SO back....I found out cuz Im smart and used my woman intuition...would I ever take someone else back...probably not...but I cheated previously when I was engaged so I just felt it was Karma coming back so it bothered me a lot but I couldnt get TOO mad....but I live with him now....its impossible for him to do ANYTHING lol

Quoting KARLiE'S M0MMiE [BBM]:“ I took my SO back....I found out cuz Im smart and used my woman intuition...would I ever take someone ... [snip!] ... back so it bothered me a lot but I couldnt get TOO mad....but I live with him now....its impossible for him to do ANYTHING lol”

How is it impossible for him to do anything?

Quoting KARLiE'S M0MMiE [BBM]:“ I took my SO back....I found out cuz Im smart and used my woman intuition...would I ever take someone ... [snip!] ... back so it bothered me a lot but I couldnt get TOO mad....but I live with him now....its impossible for him to do ANYTHING lol”

bahahaha yeah right

Quoting KARLiE'S M0MMiE [BBM]:“ I took my SO back....I found out cuz Im smart and used my woman intuition...would I ever take someone ... [snip!] ... back so it bothered me a lot but I couldnt get TOO mad....but I live with him now....its impossible for him to do ANYTHING lol”

I am sure if he tried hard enough he could sneak around. Husbands do it all the time.

Quoting -Auriel's Milk Maid-:“ When I was in high school I took my ex-boyfriend back, but I didn't have very much self-respect back then -- so I voted no.”

Not leaving a person because they cheated doesn't really mean someone has no self respect. Harsh.

i dont think i would. i would never want to be in that situation. I dont thinki would take him back though.