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re: My Story for anyone considering abortion please read!!!

posted 2nd Nov
Quoting emily8:“ Dear *wicked Mama* It doesnt matter wha she said in the past, she made a mistake and im sure would take ... [snip!] ... someone in a great way!!!Time heals all wounds and just know that that baby was too good for this world! Be strong! <3”

Yes, regretting it or not, she made it quite clear in her other post that this WAS her decision and now she's trying to make people feel sorry for her by saying it was not. She needs to own up and be responsible for her own choices. If that makes me a bitch, then okay.

I am sorry you regret your decision, OP, but, ultimately, it was your choice to make.
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I have 3 kids & live in Washington
posted 6th Nov
Quoting *Wicked Mama*:“ Yes, regretting it or not, she made it quite clear in her other post that this WAS her decision and ... [snip!] ... If that makes me a bitch, then okay. I am sorry you regret your decision, OP, but, ultimately, it was your choice to make.”

Not really listen im here trying to help other mothers with thinking about there decision i dont need your negative feedback what i said about my family this is true........if i could turn back the hands of time definitely would make a better choice
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I have 1 child & live in Milwaukee, Wisconsin
posted 7th Nov
Quoting lele444:“ hello today is october 30 2009, I am 9 weeks pregnant due may 15. I am 21 years old and i ahve a 1 year ... [snip!] ... they have been on the news in the paper been married for a long period been looking to adopt many years!look it up please...”
.... I just read your blog....you should check out Rachelsvineyard.org. It is a weekend retreat for women experiencing the wounds abortion has caused. I myself went to one and it changed my life...its such a hard thing to go thru and i know exactly what you feel. Please know if you ask Christ into your heart and ask for forgiveness, he washes you white as snow and you will one day see your baby in heaven I promise. Feel free to write back if you need someone to talk to. hugs
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I'm due March 4th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Maryland
posted 7th Nov
Quoting lele444:“ Not really listen im here trying to help other mothers with thinking about there decision i dont need ... [snip!] ... what i said about my family this is true........if i could turn back the hands of time definitely would make a better choice”


Exactly! That was the point i was trying to make! it doesnt matter what you did or did not say and even if she thinks that she is right, you posted this to try and help other people and get comfort after being through something horrible and if she cant say anything to help then it was not her place to say anything at all! i think i speak for most of us when i say that i am very sorry that you had to go through this! i know and understand what its like to lose a child and would not wish it on anyone, it being thier decision or not! whether it be a miscarriage, still born, abortion, ect.It is emotionally hard and you can find yourself reaching out to anyone that will give any comforting words (especially if you dont have the support of your family) I dont know what i would have done not haing my family there to lean on through my miscarriage!
I do not support abortion under any circumstances but ican understand your decision making in the state that you were in!Agian i am very sorry for your loss and the regret you must feel!Ifyou need any support or comforting words, although not all of us are offering to give it,I am! Be Strong...
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I'm due December 8th (a girl), have 1 angel baby & live in Kentucky
posted 7th Nov
Quoting *Wicked Mama*:“ OP, I know you're upset and hurting. However, I seem to recall you telling everyone in a thread a few ... [snip!] ... a few weeks ago that you couldn't afford to have another child. You never said anything about your parents making you choose.”


y would u try and start with her now...
if you dont have any positive feed back....leave .....
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I have 3 kids & live in Old Bridge, New Jersey
posted 7th Nov
Quoting Morning Wood [ebfb]:“ I can tell your upset because I had a hard time understanding the story. But I did get the jist of ... [snip!] ... I am very very sorry that you are unhappy with the decision you made. Maybe it will help for you to go snuggle with your son?”


I had one done tuesday. I was completely totally unready for a child. The only thing that helped me get through it was my daughter. I regret my decision but I couldnt bring another child into this world..
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I have 1 child & live in Tennessee
posted 9th Nov
Quoting lele444:“ hello today is october 30 2009, I am 9 weeks pregnant due may 15. I am 21 years old and i ahve a 1 year ... [snip!] ... they have been on the news in the paper been married for a long period been looking to adopt many years!look it up please...”

Hey im trying to know everything about an abortion: Everything they do can you help me? Please
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I live in California
posted 9th Nov
Quoting peruvianshawty510:“ Hey im trying to know everything about an abortion: Everything they do can you help me? Please”



They usually tell you everything in theyre office. But you can google it.
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I have 1 child & live in Tennessee
posted 9th Nov
Quoting peruvianshawty510:“ Hey im trying to know everything about an abortion: Everything they do can you help me? Please”


They crush your babys head, and then sucks its limbs and little handsout of you. Does that answer your question?
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I have 1 child & live in Tennessee
posted 9th Nov
 

sending you hugs
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I'm trying to adopt since April '08, have 3 kids & live in Texas
posted 13th Nov
Quoting lele444:“ hello today is october 30 2009, I am 9 weeks pregnant due may 15. I am 21 years old and i ahve a 1 year ... [snip!] ... they have been on the news in the paper been married for a long period been looking to adopt many years!look it up please...”

Right there with you. I tried to post my story and talk to others but I couldn't handle the stress of some replies.

I hope we can talk sometime =D
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I'm due April 9th (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in California
posted 6 days ago
Quoting peruvianshawty510:“ Hey im trying to know everything about an abortion: Everything they do can you help me? Please”

what would you like to know?its the most painful experience ever and i do not advise it and i would never do it again nor would i be in a situation again i think all woman can make it to have a baby there are alot of resources but if you have any questions give me a buzz!
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I have 1 child & live in Milwaukee, Wisconsin
posted 6 days ago
Quoting *Brooke*:“ They crush your babys head, and then sucks its limbs and little handsout of you. Does that answer your question?”

   
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ohio
posted 6 days ago
Quoting lele444:“ hello today is october 30 2009, I am 9 weeks pregnant due may 15. I am 21 years old and i ahve a 1 year ... [snip!] ... they have been on the news in the paper been married for a long period been looking to adopt many years!look it up please...”


i dont agree with abortion and you now see that you dont either, im sorry your family was so callus that they wouldnt even see eye to eye. thats the problem. people rush women in to descisons they arent ready to make....and once you get there it sucks cuz all they care about is your money. im sorry you made the bad choice, next time itll be different though, so theres nothing you can do to change whats done. sorry but its the truth, look to your future children as hope okay?
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I'm due April 20th (a boy) & live in Ohio
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