flirting with girls via myspace a few months ago and then looked at his myspace today to see one of them left him a comment saying "sup baby" with a heart... and he saw nothing wrong with this... would you be mad?

Yes, I would go off on him.

Not in the kinky way either.

when you caught him he should have told them all to never talk to him again, that he loved you, etc. obviously he didnt and thats why she thinks its okay

definitely not okay

Hell yeah.
First of all he's with me, so I don't really think he should be flirty with anyone.
And if it got to the point where there's pet names involved someone's just plan in trouble.

I agree with your bottom four answers in your poll. NOT appropriate. And he SHOULD have responded about only wanting you. I probably would give the skank a piece of my mind. AND I agree it's really embarrassing since comments are public for everyone to see.  

Quoting Becky&Bill [Team Blue]:“ when you caught him he should have told them all to never talk to him again, that he loved you, etc. obviously he didnt and thats why she thinks its okay”

yeah, he refused to tell them not to talk to him and pulled the "they're my friends!!!" card. but he would only message them (and he was being inappropriate in his messages / definitely flirting) while he was at a friend's house and i've never been jealous or told him he can't have female friends so there was no need to try and hide it from me if it was pure 'friendly'.

Out of love and respect for you he should tell this chick that he values his relationship with you enough to end any sort of friendship with her. If he doesn't think its wrong I would re- evaluate your situation.

I think it is extremely immature.

That is not okay in my book. And, she would get a piece of my mind. I tend to scare females away, at least I did with my SO's female friends (not all of em, just the ones I didn't like, rofl).

I had something like that happen too, but i saw the comments coming from him. I was pissed. Me and my friend made a fake myspace to see if he would fall for it. He didn't. When he first did that tho, i got really upset and i beat the s*&^ out of him when he walked into the door. (my hormones were crazy). I would be pissed off.

Quoting « kinley »:“ flirting with girls via myspace a few months ago and then looked at his myspace today to see one of them ... [snip!] ... to see one of them left him a comment saying "sup baby" with a heart... and he saw nothing wrong with this... would you be mad?”

I wouldnt be with a person that flirts with other women. Regardless if it was a few months ago or a day ago. He sounds like a cheater to me.

Quoting « kinley »:“ yeah, he refused to tell them not to talk to him and pulled the "they're my friends!!!" card. but he ... [snip!] ... jealous or told him he can't have female friends so there was no need to try and hide it from me if it was pure 'friendly'.”

i would throw a bitch fit until i got my way. ask him how he would like it if some guy had left you that comment. wait, dont ask him. just get some guy he doesnt know to leave you a flirty comment and see how he reacts. oh, and if you guys are in a serious relationship you should know who all his friends are. i found an eyeliner pencil in my exs car while he was supposed to be at work delivering pizzas and he claimed he saw one of his friends walking down the street she leaned in the window it must have fallen out of her pocket. who the hell carries eyeliner in her shirt pocket?? so i called her and bitched her out she swore up and down they were best friends lmao. yet she didnt know we'd been together a year and a half. i ditched his ass just because i wouldnt be able to trust him and i dont like liars. i know ALL of SO's friends and if some girl came out of nowhere that he was supposedly good friends with id be super psised and suspicious

Quoting Becky&Bill [Team Blue]:“ i would throw a bitch fit until i got my way. ask him how he would like it if some guy had left you that ... [snip!] ... of SO's friends and if some girl came out of nowhere that he was supposedly good friends with id be super psised and suspicious”

yeah, we've been "together" since 9th grade (off and on but mostly on) and now we're having a baby.... but he always says these people are people he knew before me and see out in public randomly. he'll go out to the store or something, be gone for hours on end without calling, and when he comes home and i ask where he's been he says he saw 'an old friend who wanted to hang out for a little bit'. it kind of makes me thinks these old friends are random chicks he met off myspace... we used to fight a lot a few months ago and every single time he'd go over to his friend's house (i know his password) and i'd check his outgoing friend requests and he'd be requesting like 10 random chicks. when i confronted he said "they're my friends, i know them" and i'm like  .

Quoting « kinley »:“ yeah, we've been "together" since 9th grade (off and on but mostly on) and now we're having a baby.... ... [snip!] ... and he'd be requesting like 10 random chicks. when i confronted he said "they're my friends, i know them" and i'm like  .”

He leaves for hours and doesnt call? Ummm I think hes cheating. But thats just me...