re: School Social Worker Coming To My House??

Quoting Mama With Two Boys:“ Ok to start off i have a 4 yr old boy and an almost 2 yr old boy. My oldest goes to school three days ... [snip!] ... anyone else?? I need some advice because i am freaking out at this point.. and i dont know what i should i do. advice please  ”

social worker ,friend or whomever like in this kinda situation i wouldnt let anyone take my kids for a walk without my supevision u know what im saying ? i mean if they wanna come and have a home visit tell them your okay with that but thats about it ... good luck

Quoting Captain Awesome *JMM*:“ I honestly just think they want to speak to you alone without little ears hearing everything that the ... [snip!] ... on fixing it. The teacher is probably just offering so the time is easier on you, if you aren't comfortable with it say no.”

  The teacher and socialworker can ask the oldest questions while your oldest is at school and you aren't around. I honestly think they are trying to help.

Quoting Christine - Mikey & Andy:“   The teacher and socialworker can ask the oldest questions while your oldest is at school and you aren't around. I honestly think they are trying to help.”

Exactly. I didn't even think of that lol.

I know how the system works.. and i dont mean to start drama on here but the system if fucked. I believe there are true and legitment reasons out there to have your child removed but there are some cases where its not warrented. I dont trust any of them. And i wont let them in unless i have another witness to the conversation being taken place. I emailed the teacher and told them to come thursday or we will rescedule for another date. So we will see what she says to that!

Quoting Mama With Two Boys:“ I know how the system works.. and i dont mean to start drama on here but the system if fucked. I believe ... [snip!] ... emailed the teacher and told them to come thursday or we will rescedule for another date. So we will see what she says to that!”

speaking from personal experience I notice that the system is flawed in a lot of areas ... you definately need a witness involved just in case their version of help fills their quota for the month

Quoting mommyluvbug *Wazhushk*:“ speaking from personal experience I notice that the system is flawed in a lot of areas ... you definately need a witness involved just in case their version of help fills their quota for the month”

exaclty .. and im recording the conversation as well

Quoting Mama With Two Boys:“ I know how the system works.. and i dont mean to start drama on here but the system if fucked. I believe ... [snip!] ... emailed the teacher and told them to come thursday or we will rescedule for another date. So we will see what she says to that!”

Good! He is your son, you choose when it's right for YOUR family.

Quoting Mama With Two Boys:“ exaclty .. and im recording the conversation as well”

make sure you inform them when they walk in that you are recording them ... this way it doesnt interfere with any privacy laws .... just in case and i say this because you cant record a conversation without disclosing that you are .... good way to cover ya bases

Quoting mommyluvbug *Wazhushk*:“ make sure you inform them when they walk in that you are recording them ... this way it doesnt interfere ... [snip!] ... in case and i say this because you cant record a conversation without disclosing that you are .... good way to cover ya bases”

Ive been through this before and recorded convos. What i did was type out a letter stating that all conversations here on out would be recorded and made them sign it   can we say major trust issues with the system??lol

Quoting Mama With Two Boys:“ Ive been through this before and recorded convos. What i did was type out a letter stating that all ... [snip!] ... conversations here on out would be recorded and made them sign it   can we say major trust issues with the system??lol ”

LMAO .... honestly i would do the same thing .,.. i am severely jaded with the system

Quoting mommyluvbug *Wazhushk*:“ LMAO .... honestly i would do the same thing .,.. i am severely jaded with the system”

HAHAHA yea im def. jaded as well. They piss me off so much. If i could i would kill them all..

Quoting Mama With Two Boys:“ HAHAHA yea im def. jaded as well. They piss me off so much. If i could i would kill them all..”

the worst part for me is that it was a bogus call ... someone used the system to try and screw me over and it didnt work but now im tainted grrr

Quoting mommyluvbug *Wazhushk*:“ the worst part for me is that it was a bogus call ... someone used the system to try and screw me over and it didnt work but now im tainted grrr”

omg same here! lmao. I got called on by my so's ex-girlfriend because i started dating him. Eventhough she left him 2 months prior from me getting with him. I hope shes reading this right now.. and if u r...SUCK IT!!

I would meet with them on their time, you try to buck the system and they could fight back and it will be worse on you. Maybe your son did something that is an outward symptom of physical or sexual abuse and that is why it's urgent. I guess you could ask more questions now to see what exactly you are getting into. As far as the walk, I mean sure they can play outside within view. I am sure she just met she would take them out of earshot.