Using people..

Do you use people? Do you think it's okay to use people?

I have a "friend" who's always using me and my stuff..
She comes over unannounced whenever i ignore her texts and calls, eats my food, makes a mess, ect...


then this morning, it's my birthday (and Chloe's also) she texts me and asks if she can wash a load of clothes @ my house... wtf? What do I say to that?

a big f u, seriously.

Happy Birthday!

say yes if you wash mine too!

lol jk i dont know mama just tell her you would like a day to yourself because its your birthday or something.

tell her no. today is a special day.

then try to tell her no more often! hopefully she will get the idea
lol

happy birthday!

its not okay to use people!

tell her to go the laundry mat...

No, I don't use people.
No, I don't think it's okay to use people.

About your friend...if you don't want her to come over just tell her no.

Quoting KristenCollins:“ say yes if you wash mine too! lol jk i dont know mama just tell her you would like a day to yourself because its your birthday or something.”

LMAO I told her that my washer broke into a million peices and ghost came and ate it...lol
She knows im kidding but maybe she will get the hint! haah
(yesterday she was here and she heard banging and it was the landlord fixing the siding but I played it off like it was ghosts, and she believed me! lol)

I would like to say that I don't use people, but I think anyone who says that would be lying.  You don't necessarily have to be using them in a negative way, and most friends and family are there to support you.  So as long as you are giving back as much as you are taking I don't see a problem with going to a friend for help.

However, the friend you are describing sounds selfish and I can see why you are sick of her crap!

There's a big difference between asking a friend for a favor, and using them...
Your friend sounds like she's a user....

Quoting Chl♥e's M♥mmy:“ Do you use people? Do you think it's okay to use people? I have a "friend" who's always using me and ... [snip!] ... birthday (and Chloe's also) she texts me and asks if she can wash a load of clothes @ my house... wtf? What do I say to that?”

I don't think its ok to use people.
My friend use to use me..jackass.. 

Tell her to go away..?

I'm sorry sweets. This is not going to end. People like this will come and go. What's horrible, is if you try to say no, or try to ask for something for you, you are automatically a selfish bitch. I have been going through this for YEARS!!! After I had my daughter though, I have become the bitch they think I am, and they have actually said sorry for eveyrthing they have done. They didn't realize it.... Others though... Let's just say they don't give a shit about anyone else but themselves.... Just take care of you and yours and don't pay attention to what others have to say.

I have one of those friends...he called me the other day asking to pick him up at the airport because he didnt think about actually having a ride when he got there...

and happy bday