re: my world is falling apart

nothing more to add to what the ladies have already said so just HUGS

::e-hugs:: mama.

stay strong&& be safe.

we're here to talk if you need us.

Quoting Kade's Mama:“ yeah i filed a report while i was in the hospital”

Good woman.

Update


He came back to the apartment while my brothers and I were getting some things. He denies ever hitting me, and said that even if he did, he was defending himself from me!

He's telling people that I hit him...
and when we were at the apartment, he kept talking loudly and yelling that i hit him so the neighbors and ppl outside could hear...but he leaned in to my ear and whispered "I know i beat the shit out of you, and i broke everything, but im not going to admit to it."

he doesnt have to lol everyone already knows he's full of shit, and the neighbors heard me yell "im pregnant" when he was bashing my head in the fridge, which they heard too...and the mirror shatter...

anyway...now he's trying to be nice to me, cuz he wants a car, and both are in my name. the only not in my name is the apartment, which is good cuz im nto paying the rent! and he destroyed the place, so the landlord can go afer his sorry ass  

Quoting Kade's Mama:“ Update He came back to the apartment while my brothers and I were getting some things. He denies ... [snip!] ... which is good cuz im nto paying the rent! and he destroyed the place, so the landlord can go afer his sorry ass  ”

You reap what you sow...I hopehe really pays for what he did to you. I wish you and your LO's the best!

Quoting ~Maddie's Mommy (EBF)~:“ You reap what you sow...I hopehe really pays for what he did to you. I wish you and your LO's the best!”

thanks mama

Thank all of you for the encouragement

never allow yourself to be alone with him for any reason

if you ever decide to go back it will get worse

take your time develop a plan and follow through with it

if u dont have a stun gun law. Id invest in one
best 50 bucks i ever spent

Quoting K_sam:“ never allow yourself to be alone with him for any reason if you ever decide to go back it will get ... [snip!] ... time develop a plan and follow through with it if u dont have a stun gun law. Id invest in one best 50 bucks i ever spent”

agreed.

i bought oneafter my ex tried to choke me.

did you know that they can bring a 6'2'' man to the ground? and keep him there for a bit till the 5-0 gets there?

really quite impressive.

good to know. seeing as jared is a little smaller than myself, he'd stay down for a while.

It was quite Quoting Kade's Mama:“ good to know. seeing as jared is a little smaller than myself, he'd stay down for a while.”

It was quite hilarous.

See, he followed me somewhere and thought he would be getting the best of me. Im only 4'11'', afterall.

OH BOY, was he shocked and in quite a bit of pain. And, I cant reach super high, so he got shocked smack dab in the chest.

He was still moaning and on the ground when the cops showed up. Took 3 cops to put his wobbly ass in the back of the cruiser, lmfao.

Its funny now, but IDK what would've happened if i only had my pepper spray. I would've been SOL, because I know he was wicked pissed.