re: okay ladies no judgement please

2 drinks is not that much... Anyone who thinks 2 drinks is alot really should never consider living in the UK.....

ETA or France....

Quoting Aydennsma:“ ummm i dont drink every day of the week... and when i do drink on the weekends my kids are not with ... [snip!] ... to be judged im working towards cutting back and maybe quitting. i admitted there was an issue with it so i have nothing else”

Ok.
I personally don't go out every weekend since I decided to have kids.
I grew up. But yea...
carry on I wont say anymore.
Just remember your kids are first.

Quoting CUNTtastic:“ Ok. I personally don't go out every weekend since I decided to have kids. I grew up. But yea... carry on I wont say anymore. Just remember your kids are first.”

i dont go out, im at home actually with my SO, and theres no reason why its unsafe to drink on the weekends if my kids arent here. and how incoherent am i after 2 drinks during the week. come on. i admit i should cut down on the weekends but really theres so much worse out there. maybe ive seen alot back in my younger years before i had kids. but at least i know what i need to work on and if your gonna knock me call me a bad mom then so be it. that really goes to show ur lack of compassion for other people

Quoting CUNTtastic:“ Ok. I personally don't go out every weekend since I decided to have kids. I grew up. But yea... carry on I wont say anymore. Just remember your kids are first.”

and yes i drink but have been clean from all drugs for four years because i had my first child . ive had some life altering situations that ive had a hard time dealing with in the past few months. maybe drinking isnt the way but all i can do is fix it. i dont need to be judged

Quoting Aydennsma:“ and yes i drink but have been clean from all drugs for four years because i had my first child . ive ... [snip!] ... hard time dealing with in the past few months. maybe drinking isnt the way but all i can do is fix it. i dont need to be judged”

I never said you were a bad mother!
But if you have a complex about it, sorry.
But I only defended myself when you wanted to to thanks for my insightful comment....

Quoting CUNTtastic:“ I never said you were a bad mother! But if you have a complex about it, sorry. But I only defended myself when you wanted to to thanks for my insightful comment....”

i dont have a complex im actually proud of how far ive come in life cuz u think im bad now u shoulda seen me before i had kids! ur comment seemed like it was meant to be hurtful. my kids are my world and what changed my life completely. i know regardless of what happens in life i will always have my kids god willing. and i dont take them for granted they do and always will come first. its a mothers instinct to protect there children. so when someone insults my lifestyle it seems they are saying im a bad mother because that is my life. i have no friends i dont get out im a stay at home mom so thats it really

Quoting Aydennsma:“ i dont have a complex im actually proud of how far ive come in life cuz u think im bad now u shoulda ... [snip!] ... are saying im a bad mother because that is my life. i have no friends i dont get out im a stay at home mom so thats it really”

My intentions were not cruel at all.
I know what it is like to be an alcoholic. Trust me it isnt pretty, drinking will only lead to more drinking. Its a very scary thing. Ive seen horrible things happen because of drinking. Maybe I'm the one with the complex, with alcohol.
I wont lie....
My daughter definitively saved my life.

Quoting CUNTtastic:“ My intentions were not cruel at all. I know what it is like to be an alcoholic. Trust me it isnt pretty, ... [snip!] ... because of drinking. Maybe I'm the one with the complex, with alcohol. I wont lie.... My daughter definitively saved my life.”

i can understand that. for me its drugs in general that i have a complex against bc it almost ruined my life. and its crazy bc i see mothers with children STILL doing drugs in front of there children or just doing them in general and its hard for me to imagine. i stopped drugs bc i was pregnant. and decieded to change my life. i know what i need to change and i will work to do that. i love my kids saved me and i owe them for that. something they may never know or understand