re: uhm. just a thought of mine..

Quoting ANNIEEEE:“ I love it too..!  ”

Sometimes I miss my "old" life. But then I think about my son, & he's made everything so much better I wouldn't trade him for the world!

Get out and live the real world as an adult, shoot a baby out of your crotch, survive motherhood, and stop referring to yourself as someone's "wifey."

Perhaps I'll take you seriously then.

Quoting ma ♥:“ Sometimes I miss my "old" life. But then I think about my son, & he's made everything so much better I wouldn't trade him for the world!”

Yeah I mean I KNOW I would NOT be trying hard in college at all I would be too busy partying, but now I know that I HAVE to get up every morning and go to school.

How old are you btw?

You're 17.
Learn about reality before you come in here guns a blazin' spewing this nonsense.

Quoting NiCKSWiFEy(::“ Personally, im against abortion. sorry to say. if no one agrees with this okaybut i do want your opinions. ... [snip!] ... in the door) and she did..idk i think abortion is depressing and if you dont want to take care of a baby dont get pregnant.”

Um, hypocrite much?
You question why people have sex at all if they are not planning on having a baby, yet that is exactly what you did.
smh- you are just another teeny bopper know it all.

Quoting Kaiter Schrute:“ Get out and live the real world as an adult, shoot a baby out of your crotch, survive motherhood, and stop referring to yourself as someone's "wifey." Perhaps I'll take you seriously then.”

haha oh im about to.
and get over the frikking wifey shit.

Quoting NiCKSWiFEy(::“ haha oh im about to. and get over the frikking wifey shit.”

How can I "get over it?" Haha, I'm not really going crazy over it. Not worth it...

Quoting NiCKSWiFEy(::“ i didnt mean to post thisinthe wrong topic and NO IM NOT TRYING TO STIR SHIT UP i was just looking at ... [snip!] ... better after you get help for it. i know a friend of mine who lost her baby, its been a year now and shes still not over it..”

Why does it have to be drama?

Because this is the ABORTION SURVIVORS forum- a place where women who are dealing with a very tough decision in their lives come to get help and support and you come in with "LOL I'M A 17 YEAR OLD WIFEY HAVIN A BABY WITH MY ~HUBBY~ I THINK ABORTIONS WRONG U SHOULD JUST USE CONDOMS N NOT KILL THE BABIES GUYSSS."

Did you honestly think this wouldn't happen?

Quoting Samma[GDS]:“ This is a topic better suited for D&D not Abortion Survivors. This thread is for women who need support ... [snip!] ... trying to deal with the emotions that come with it, and coming here to find a thread like this going to do nothing for them.”

      

Look at this bad ass 17 year old trying to tell someone they're making a bad decision.
What are your plans smart one? Have a baby before you even have your damn high school diploma? Are you and your baby gonna be rooommates at your Parents house? How about medical for your baby what happneds when he or she gets sick how are you gonna pay a damn medical bill. With my fuckin tax money right   Gonna raise your daughter off of government milk?

HAHAHAHAHA

And really to post something like that to abortion SURVIVORS?! Get the hell out of here with that. Im sorry but some 17 year old little bitch isn't gonna make me feel bad for a decision that I made as an Adult.

I didnt keep my baby for a reason because I knew I couldn't give it the world. Adoption wouldn't work for me either considering I had so many resonsibilities to keep my head above water it wouldn't be possible to be pregnant through working 2 jobs and school.
I am so happy I waited and now my little girl is gonna have everything.
My husband and I are financially stable and ready for her. We own a house to raise her in. College fund, Medical insurance a HUGE loving family.
Her life is Cake
And dont think that me or my husband came from any kind of money. EVERYTHING we have came from our own determnation and we built something special for 20 and 21 years old.

You do that minor then you talk down to someone.
Untill then hit the books and look into adoption


XOXO
D

I have to say I mostly agree with what you say, I believe to many girls/women use abortion as a form of birth control and those type of women should be forced to not have the option of getting pregnant. By means of removing her baby maker, or a tubal.   Its not the right thing to do in any way shape or form when its with that mindset. It could seriously damage the mother herself by subjecting herself to it so often. However, rape victims and cases like that should not be judged for wanting to destroy a reminder of the horrible thing that happened to them.

Quoting Siempre Bella:“ Look at this bad ass 17 year old trying to tell someone they're making a bad decision. What are your ... [snip!] ... years old. You do that minor then you talk down to someone. Untill then hit the books and look into adoption XOXO D”

Not all Young mothers want to have financial support by being on the system. People looked at me like a scumbag when i said i was having my baby, but I work my ass off for my baby and the father sits on his ass and plays video games. I'm 20, he's 26. So what the fuck does age have to do with being able to raise a kid right? Nothing. And by the way, If you want to give someone a lesson on maturity, don't call yourself an Adult and bitch out a 17 year old. Learn some class.

this girl is a joke.
hopefully "wifey" and "hubby" dont pull the whole "have a baby and dump it on mommy and daddy" card.
She'll grow up soon, hopefully.

Quoting JordiBear714:“ Not all Young mothers want to have financial support by being on the system. People looked at me like ... [snip!] ... If you want to give someone a lesson on maturity, don't call yourself an Adult and bitch out a 17 year old. Learn some class.”

How elseis a 17t\yo going toget support? And I will call her out as a bitch to say something so negative about a decision not all of us wanted to make but did because we felt it was best for ourselves and babies. How can someone write that in the abortion SURVIVORS forum and not expect someone to say anything back?

Call me a bad guy for getting an abortion
But Ill call you an Idiot for keeping a baby so young when you cannot take care of it on your own and basically making your child other peoples responsibility  

I don't know your particular siutuation. Except your with a dead beat that plays video games but fuck thats your poor judgement Im sorry to hear that because I honestly don't know what I'do without my husband his emotional support as well as his ability to take care ofout familyfinancially.

Dont get me wrong Im not the type to push my opinion on EVERYONE. I know people who have had children too young and basically living on the system and of course their parents. But I wouldn't tell them how wrongI think they are HOWEVER if someone is gonna attack a group of people about such a sad sensetive subject then I'm not gonna keep my mouth shut.

Quoting Siempre Bella:“ How elseis a 17t\yo going toget support? And I will call her out as a bitch to say something so negative ... [snip!] ... HOWEVER if someone is gonna attack a group of people about such a sad sensetive subject then I'm not gonna keep my mouth shut.”

actually I didn't say i was with the father of my baby, so thats not my bad judgement. And you only have to be 16 to get a job so she doesnt need to live on the system. cuz i know plenty of people that do that as well, I'm just saying just because shes young doesnt mean she WILL. You're just as big an idiot for ASSUMING something without asking how she'll raise her kid.