Lying (kind of long)

A couple of days ago I hacked onto my boyfriends e-mail because i had this nagging suspicion that he was talking to his ex. Well come to find out I was absolutely correct. He had been talking to her since APRIL! And he constantly tells her that he misses her. And he even went as far as giving her his number. I feel betrayed in the worst way - i would never do this to him, I'm six months pregnant and he's telling his ex that he misses her. So i confronted him about it - he told me that they hadn't talked since i was 2 months pregnant and that he had only talked to her once. He lied straight to my face. I was in utter shock. He thinks I'm just being jealous. I hacked onto his email - i have the proof but there's no way i can tell him that i did that or else he'll just go and change his passwords and continue on with it. I tried telling him that i need a break and he said that i couldn't do that because i need him and that i wont be able to make it on my own with our daughter. I just really don't know what to do  

So, how did you confront him without tell him you hacked into his email?

This is just me, but... I'd leave. Talking to other girls AND lying is too much of a double whammy for me.

leave him........

When you told him you needed a break and he said no, thats him playing games with your head. If you know that your able to take care of her alone for a while, dont let him stop you!

i would leave his ass!!! i thought i couldnt do it all alone and i need my BD to help and i wanted to be a happy family but he was a liar among other things and here i am 6 months later doing it all on my own and i would nt have it any other way! if he is telling someone else he misses them, then its time for you to leave!!!

block her email then tell him. just dont tell him you blocked her email. he probably wont notice. so even if he does change his password it wont matter. but you should tell him about the email.

Well he told me when i was like five months pregnant that his ex had a pregnancy scare as well. So i didn't really start connecting the dots that hey he's been talking to his ex, and i'm forbidden to talk to any of mine, so i brought it up to him and he was like it was one time.

He THINKS you need him. You really don't, I'm pretty sure. All you need is your baby and I'm pretty sure you could survive without him!

Quoting Makayla & Me!:“ i would leave his ass!!! i thought i couldnt do it all alone and i need my BD to help and i wanted to ... [snip!] ... on my own and i would nt have it any other way! if he is telling someone else he misses them, then its time for you to leave!!!”

     

Men are just so urghhhh !!

Dont let anything stop you girl .
Do what your heart tells you to .
And you know u can do it wit the baby alone ,dont let him put you down like that .

Men are just so urghhhh !!

Dont let anything stop you girl .
Do what your heart tells you to .
And you know u can do it wit the baby alone ,dont let him put you down like that .

I would leave him. Don't listen to him telling you that you can't do it on your own without him. It might be hard but you can do it and it's better then being with someone you can't trust.

Quoting Samantha Lauran:“ Well he told me when i was like five months pregnant that his ex had a pregnancy scare as well. So i ... [snip!] ... been talking to his ex, and i'm forbidden to talk to any of mine, so i brought it up to him and he was like it was one time.”

I would tell him how you found out, honestly. And, if you want a break you are entitled to take one.

I think I'm going to tell him that I hacked onto it, because I really do want to know how he justifies what he's doing.