This is probably going to come back and bite me in the ass.

Problem solved.

If that is the decision that you truly feel is the best for you and your family, then I wish you all the best and wish that you didn't have to be in that situation.

None of us can tell you what is right, babe. If you feel like abortion is the only option for you, then that's that. But I do think you need to take your DH's feelings about this into consideration. Its his child too. Best wishes

Quoting Joh!D ((The Carver)):“ If that is the decision that you truly feel is the best for you and your family, then I wish you all the best and wish that you didn't have to be in that situation.”

Youre on and youre not in TLNBC? !!

It's your decision, and if you feel that it's best then so be it. I hope everything turns out in the end for you. Good luck mama.

Do what you feel is best. I will stand behind you and support you 110% the entire way. Even though I don't necessarily think you should get an abortion, if that is what is best for you and your family then I support you.

I think you can do it. It might be a huge struggle, but you are a strong, intelligent woman. You are by far the strongest woman I know.

No matter what you decide, I love you and am here for you.

Sometimes you have to do what you gotta do, even if its not an easy choice.

Quoting LA REINA™:“ First off let me say that all opinions are welcome. I'm an open minded woman and I'd appreciate it if ... [snip!] ... and get some tears out of my eyes. I appreciate any kind words, words of advice, or even constructive criticism. Thank you.”

1- youre in shock. clearly. so give it some time, and you may be happy that youre preggo, given you were TTC.
2- if after the shock wears off, you still want an aborton, you need to do what is right for YOU. I just owuldnt make that decision right now, until youve had a chance to think about it some more.
3-if you chose abortion, you need to decide what to do about hubs... that is his kid too after all, and he clearly wants it. Im nto saying to make your decision based off of that, AT ALL; you decide what is right for YOU. but you do need to think about this part.

Quoting LA REINA™:“ First off let me say that all opinions are welcome. I'm an open minded woman and I'd appreciate it if ... [snip!] ... and get some tears out of my eyes. I appreciate any kind words, words of advice, or even constructive criticism. Thank you.”

I hope you are able to make a decision that works well for your family.
IMO, since you were ttc and only stopped b/c of your workload/school, I think you may have serious regrets if you did abort.

Do what you have to do mama. I can only imagine how you must feel, if I were to get pregnant right now I have no clue what I would do. Butt think long and hard before you make your decision, just make sure its YOUR choice. (and DHs too)

you were TTCing and now you're going to possibly abort?


Im sorry i know you're going through a lot, but thats messed up to me

I know how you are feeling. with this pregnancy I wanted an abortion at first. And I'm extremely against it.Give yourself a little while to really think about the situation before you rush into a decision. I'm glad that i didand i think you would be too.If you need to talk PM me anytime!

I think you should adopt. There are plenty of ppl out there who would raise your child. I just think there are other thing you could do in stead of that idea.

Quoting hippie☮miiamo:“ Youre on and youre not in TLNBC? !!”

I am! I just posted in there  

Quoting TypoDemon:“ Sometimes you have to do what you gotta do, even if its not an easy choice.”

i totally agree, OP think long and hard about the decision and make sure it's best for your family...