re: Other Side Of The Family...(kind long but need advice)

Maybe the 10 year old took her in the bedroom because there were lots of people around and she wanted to play with her all by herself. I mean you did say she is very attached to her, maybe she was playing mommy or something. However, If you feel like your daughter is second rate to everyone else around maybe you shouldn't keep taking her into that situation anymore. I understand the aunt is attached to her but a 10 year old little girl is not capable of properly taking care of a baby. Maybe you could have the 10 yr. old come to your house and visit instead where you know your daughter is being taken care of and not neglected. Good luck!

Quoting mtoWCS09:“ You let her stay overnight when it's first time meeting them? That's kind of crazy to me. My BD's mom ... [snip!] ... I would only let them see them while supervised by you. Maybe once she's older and knows them better she could stay overnight.”

It was her first time meeting some of her aunts, cousins and uncles....his mom was there the day nariah was born we were pretty close till her son went to prison. I trust her with Nariah but I'm on my toes now...and i dont get along with the family because im with some one else...so i cant just go and sit in their house while they sit and visit nariah...idk i dont think i want her over there at all...maybe for the day she only sees nariah once a month for a weekend...so maybe for a day once a month idk...

Did they take her to the room because she was fussy and the family was trying to the party. When my daughter gets fussy I leave the room so other people can still have a good time. My sister's do the same thing. You had just walked in so you dont know how the other family was treating her before you walked in the house. Maybe everyone had just gotten done play with her and holding her and she got fussy so her grandmother put her in a room and had to 10 year old sit with her while she made her bottle so she was not alone in a room.