How do you act towards BD?

Im about 7 weeks pregnant and VERY newly single. My ex decided he didn't want to be with me because I made the decision to keep the baby when he wanted me to abort. We even got into a few huge fights about it and he really disrespected me, although heapologizedi really find it hard to forgive him of that anytime soon. I love him very much and he means a lot to me so im very heart broken but then again im really angry towards him for the fact that he doesn't want to support me or make things work out between us. He did say he will be there for his baby though. I haven't talked to him for a couple days because im trying my hardest to get through this and stay strong but he text me today asking me how im doing and when is my first doctors appointment. I just replied that im fine. He got upset for the way I answered and just told me if I can plz keep him updated. It does make me feel a lil bit better that he wants to know these things but im so angry that he can't be there for me too! I don't know how to act towards him because im so upset over everything.... 

I partially hate my BD for everything he has done to us.

Quoting babybb:“ I partially hate my BD for everything he has done to us.”

 

i would castrate mine if possible!  

My BD acts like a ass. I am not with him and I starting to realize I don't need him to take care of her which he hasn't been doing

But what if he REALLY wants to be a part of my babies life?
Is it wrong of me to act rude towards him when he wants to know about how im doing and whats going on... or Im supposed to put all the pain and anger aside and act nothing ever happened?
I don't know what to do... 

Quoting Latina Diva:“ But what if he REALLY wants to be a part of my babies life? Is it wrong of me to act rude towards him ... [snip!] ... going on... or Im supposed to put all the pain and anger aside and act nothing ever happened? I don't know what to do... ”

egh........i'm not sure.
It's weird that he doesn't want to be with you just because you're pregnant, but if he didn't care he wouldn't be asking.
Maybe ask him why you two can't be together?

Quoting Latina Diva:“ But what if he REALLY wants to be a part of my babies life? Is it wrong of me to act rude towards him ... [snip!] ... going on... or Im supposed to put all the pain and anger aside and act nothing ever happened? I don't know what to do... ”

The whole thing is im really devastated that he doesn't want support me and that he would even put me through this pain and sufferingduringthis moment

Quoting Latina Diva:“ The whole thing is im really devastated that he doesn't want support me and that he would even put me through this pain and sufferingduringthis moment”

Maybe you should try talking to him in person.

Quoting babybb:“ egh........i'm not sure. It's weird that he doesn't want to be with you just because you're pregnant, but if he didn't care he wouldn't be asking. Maybe ask him why you two can't be together?”

haha oooh i've asked and cried why?? but it's a long story.. he feelstrapped, he not ready yet, he's scared, he went through this whole thing that if we have a baby and things don't work out in the future between us how horrible life is going to be... but yet he leaves me right now and doesn't even give it a chance to see what happens. THEN he said that because of this whole situation he realized he doesn't really love me how he thought he did because if he did he would want me to keep the baby.

Quoting babybb:“ I partially hate my BD for everything he has done to us.”

I am the same way

Quoting Latina Diva:“ haha oooh i've asked and cried why?? but it's a long story.. he feelstrapped, he not ready yet, he's ... [snip!] ... situation he realized he doesn't really love me how he thought he did because if he did he would want me to keep the baby.”

ahh oh I'm sorry you have to go through this. I see it happen to so many girls.
My BD also told me he wasn't sure if he loved me and went and did a whole bunch of stupid stuff that made our relationship even worse. Things have been better now, but we aren't really together. I can't seem to forgive and forget about what he has put me through.I think some men are just cowards.
I really don't know what to do about it. I wish I knew!
Let me know if you find out.

Quoting Latina Diva:“ haha oooh i've asked and cried why?? but it's a long story.. he feelstrapped, he not ready yet, he's ... [snip!] ... situation he realized he doesn't really love me how he thought he did because if he did he would want me to keep the baby.”

the thing is, we were a long distant couple for over a year. I went to visit him 2 weeks ago to discuss this with him. I was supposed to leave from there tomorrow but because we kept fighting about this and I kept bringing up that I wanted to keep it, he through a huge fit and eventually crossed the line and put me down and really disrespected me all because he couldn't get his way, i left because i wasn't having it. Then he deleted from his facebook, myspace and all that stuff and told me that he's going to be there for the baby but doesn't want to be with me and because we're not together right now that I have no reason to be in his business. He just told me to keep him updated with doctor visits and thats it. which is really messed up because he said he does want to be with me but not in this situation. If i would get an abortion we would still be together but for the fact that I made a decision to keep it regardless what he wanted and how he felt, he feels betrayed and doesn't want to be with me. So I am pretty angry and heart broken about the whole thing and thats why I don't know how to act towards him at the moment.

If he wasn't ready to be a father; he should ofwrap up then.

Quoting ♥ Tinke ♥:“ If he wasn't ready to be a father; he should ofwrap up then.”

HAHA EXACTLY! which I know is partially my fault as well but he pretty much put the whole thing on me, like why i never got on birth control or told him to put a condom on. It takes 2 to tango and this is both of our responsibility.

Quoting Latina Diva:“ HAHA EXACTLY! which I know is partially my fault as well but he pretty much put the whole thing on me, ... [snip!] ... why i never got on birth control or told him to put a condom on. It takes 2 to tango and this is both of our responsibility.”

oooh! i told him this and this is what he said... that he thought we were both on the same level and that if i were to happen to get pregnant that I would abort. I told him he knew the consequences and what could happen. Then he said if he would of known since the beginning that if he got me prego and I would keep it that he wouldn't of fucks wit me in the first place. EXACTLY like that!