re: im 14 and pregnant and i dont know how explain....

Quoting little bubba:“ haha omg do you ever shut up? im not saying your being rude or pointing fingures im saying theres a few ... [snip!] ... cause im not them im me and im proud of what i will do in life so stuff the world and stuff you judging me without knowing me”

haha really? nobody is "pointing" fingers at you. and last I heard telling a 14 year old to tell her mom, is helping her out. She needs prenatal care and she is not going to get that without her mom taking her to the dr. cause she isa minor! She can not make her own dr. appointment. She needs shit for her baby, like clothes, bottles, crib, diapers, and tons more, she is 14 fucking years old so she can not have any sort of job, unless its babysitting which I doubt she does. You say it doesnt bug when people look down on you, yet you are sitting in this forum and your other forum saying people are being rude, and your getting butthurt of their "rudeness" If it really didnt bug you, you wouldnt be kicking and screaming about it over the freaking internet for gods sake. YesI admit some ladies here can be rude, but thats reality, like I said before there is always going to be someone like that, if you dont like it there is a red x button at the top right corner. I talk like Im older cause have a matured a lot when I was 17 and had a baby! Its something you do, and if you dont your going to be just like the statistic teen mom, leaving your kid with whoever whenever so you can go party and have fun. I dont even referr to myself as a teen mom cause its asking for sympathy "Saying its harder" when really its just as hard for an adult, there are adults in college and working and that are single and doing it alone. So no I dont give any sympathy to teens, just cause they have a baby. Your spread your legs knowing it can make a baby, so you can take care of your responsibilities and grow up and take care of your child! But are you done kicking and screaming now? Cause Im sick of replying to a whining immature girl about people being rude! When we were actaully helping her SINCE it is best she tells her mom! Otherwise that child is going to have nothing and could possible never get prenatal care until she is showing and her mom realizes it! Which is sad! She could have a pre-mature birth, she could have high blood pressure, there are a lot things that could go wrong.

Quoting M.C's mommy:“ haha really? nobody is "pointing" fingers at you. and last I heard telling a 14 year old to tell her ... [snip!] ... is sad! She could have a pre-mature birth, she could have high blood pressure, there are a lot things that could go wrong.”

wow i need a summary of all that

Hun you just really need to tell your mom cuz you need to go to the docs and get prenatal and so much more, your not gonna know what to do if your just on your own. And don't take these post personally, its just a bunch of pregnant women with mood swings and raging hormones lol were all a lil' crazy, bitchy, and all the above cuz right now we have the right to lol.

Quoting Me&U(Agianst the world):“ Hun you just really need to tell your mom cuz you need to go to the docs and get prenatal and so much ... [snip!] ... mood swings and raging hormones lol were all a lil' crazy, bitchy, and all the above cuz right now we have the right to lol.”

I hope everything is okay because she hasn't updated.

Quoting ArmyWifeLovesXmasBabies:“ I hope everything is okay because she hasn't updated.”

Yeah, maybe she got grounded or something, my mom and dad got mad at me at first, but they helped me, it took me a bit b4 i told them, they said they knew all along though lol

Quoting Me&U(Agianst the world):“ Yeah, maybe she got grounded or something, my mom and dad got mad at me at first, but they helped me, it took me a bit b4 i told them, they said they knew all along though lol”

I really don't understand what grounding would do.

Quoting ArmyWifeLovesXmasBabies:“ I really don't understand what grounding would do.”

No idea but i actually known parents that hav done that to my friends that were pregnant??? Some people are just dumb

Quoting Me&U(Agianst the world):“ No idea but i actually known parents that hav done that to my friends that were pregnant??? Some people are just dumb”

what's done is done. Grounding is not going to teach a lesson but having to deal with a child at 14 will teach them responsibility

Quoting ArmyWifeLovesXmasBabies:“ what's done is done. Grounding is not going to teach a lesson but having to deal with a child at 14 will teach them responsibility”

unless the parents are dumb enough to let their 14 yr old keep going out and saying they will babysit. I have a friend who is like that and her mom watches her baby the whole weekend while she parties and doesnt come home once. ERKs me to death. I get so mad andI always tell her she is a bad mom and she says I know but cameron will cheat on me or break up with me. Im like seriously you gives a fuck, you havea baby he comes first. but she is too worried about cameron (which is her sons dad)

Quoting M.C's mommy:“ unless the parents are dumb enough to let their 14 yr old keep going out and saying they will babysit. ... [snip!] ... Im like seriously you gives a fuck, you havea baby he comes first. but she is too worried about cameron (which is her sons dad)”

I wouldn't ground my daughter from the computer though as this would apply because i was wondering why she wasn't on and the one girl (Forget name) suggested she was grounded. I Think bg community could help. At least some girls.

lol whoever said i was crying i went to work :S
and maybe she hasnt updated cause shes busy dealing with it all or as you guys are talking about maybe she did get grounded even tho i dont know if grounding a child is really gunna do much while she just started pregnancy or even heard it works. and yes i know telling a 14 year old girl she should tell her mum to get help does help cause if she does dothatthenshe cant go do all the things you just said like docters figure out what she wants to do get support and everything else. and yeah okay real life does bug me but im not gunna let a lil old lady in the street put me down when i have a baby yes i may take offence over a computer more then real life because its someone i dont know trying to rub things of in my face without actualy saying hey first or talking to me just jump straight into it and bite my ass off. and yeah i may get a bit bitchface here as the other girl says we are all hormonal and get mood swings. i was quite annoyed yesturday and im quite confused and then came on here and got accused by someone i dont even know i didnt think anything of it at the time i just jumped in it and did the immature thing and said things back then you did to now its next day and i thought about it and thought hey yeah maybe people do be rude on here and there wherea couplepeople being abit rude to here at the start but i thought maybe i should be the grown up one and finish this thing cause honestly its not getting anywhere and im here to chat and find out things not get accused or acuse other people. but yeah im sorry if i did offended you or whatever.

Quoting ArmyWifeLovesXmasBabies:“ I wouldn't ground my daughter from the computer though as this would apply because i was wondering why ... [snip!] ... she wasn't on and the one girl (Forget name) suggested she was grounded. I Think bg community could help. At least some girls.”

yeah i think it would help alot of girls out

Quoting Me&U(Agianst the world):“ yeah i think it would help alot of girls out”

They need as much support as they can get. seeing as most of their friends are probably not gonna support her.

Just tell her . Theres no certain way to tell your mom . But be smart about it . Show you care what her opinions are . Either way everything should work out find , she'll come around .