Anyone trying to concieve after a loss?

Most of you probably have read my posts before, but I am going through alot and trying to seek as much comfort as possible, plus finding people who been through this and still had other children is a bit comformting. I will always love my son. He will always be my number one, my first born. But unfortunely even when we don't want it to life goes on, and time stops for nobody. My fiance and I desided that its best to try again right away, not to replace him, but to feel in the emptiness that we are both feeling. Having a bbay to take care of will bring both of us alot of comfort plus I can't live everyday not being a mommy anymore. I keep taking the ovulatoin tests and pregnancy tests like crazy, and we only been trying to concive for about a week and half. If you would like to raed a little about my baby boy you can go to my profile.

So has anyone concived right away after a loss of a newborn? Also does anyone know about breastfeeding and how soon your cycle returns. Is it possible to get prego right away if you were breastfeeding only?

Anyone who been through this or even know the answers to those question please...

Oh yeah, and please if you are not answering the question don't comment.. what i really mean is I do not want to hear about you should wait and etc etc...ESPECIALLY from the people who never lost a child....Im making the desition that I am making and I am not asking if I SHOULD try to concieve....so please...

Sergio Alexander Bunda Shevlyakov
August 21st, 2009 - October 7th, 2009

wow ..... im so sorry if i can ask without being rude hwat happing ????

but imho WAIT ..... its too soon and althought you do not think your replacing i am SURE you love that child with all you r being but please you might be subconcoiusly replacing ...... filling the void if youw ill .
please wait and both of you do counsolling im so sorry again op .

I am so sorry for your loss.. I know that it's really hard to get pregnant when your bf only about a 10% chance.. But once your milk dries up you should be able too.. The only other thing may be stress, which I am sure your feeling a lot of.. Sorry again and good luck..

ps i sawyour page and read and im sorry ,


i have to say this as a very very very spiritual person ...... ttc will not bring your son back in "reincarnation" i read both your posts ..

please rethink this i know you feel empty like you should be a mother right now and that is 100% right you are empty and you SHOULD be a mother i went threw this with my daughter i lost her twin my son at 18 weeks and felt like once she was born i should TTC bu thankfully i seeked help and realize now it would have been a mistake .. er wait not that a child is but my choice do you know what i mean ??? im really sorry hunny i kn a small way know waht your going threw then again not but if you ever need to talk i will be open to listning and help support you in what ways you need , in the end it is your body and your choice no one elses and i better not see any one lunge at you or shit will hit the fan ...... but please re think things my dear *hugs

ps your parrot is STUNNING

or you can jsut ignore my comments and support that is always a nice thing ....... heh .

Quoting SamarahESS TKD:“ ooooor you can comepltly ignore my comments and my offering you support ...... thats always nice too .”

thankx...but i just dont care about hearing you should wait and all that.... beause i am not asking if i SHOULD try to concieve.....like its not comforting its irritating to hear about "you should wait..etc" im trying to find people who even if they dont understand y so soon...but suport my desision and know something about breaswtfeeding or conception in general... or people who lost their first cihld and had more kids afterwards.. jus comforting to know that there COULD be or WILL be another child in my life because I know that I can't bring my baby boy back.. oh yea and by the way speaking of religious beliefs everyone is different just because u dont believe in reincarnation doesnt make u right and eveyrone else wrong.. everyone belives differently...so taht comment was out the window also...idk u jus have a sorta fucked up way in comforting people....but thats for the offer of support

Quoting R.I.P My Son 08.21.09-10.:“ thankx...but i just dont care about hearing you should wait and all that.... beause i am not asking ... [snip!] ... was out the window also...idk u jus have a sorta fucked up way in comforting people....but thats for the offer of support”

wow your a cunt , i totally belive in rencarnation im a pagan thanks ....
your a total bitch if you dont like it the least you could have done is responded to how i said if you need to talk ill glaldy be there how the fuck is that a fucked up way of comforting .... oh so being there for osmoen is fucked up in your eyes? wow .....you need to rethink your prioritties focus on healing rather then replacing and YOU said your SELF in one of your posts brb with the qoute .

direct qoute form YOUR POST you lier ...

.".. also his daddy had a dream that Sergie came to him and told him to put his picture together with his little borther or friend.... i truly believe that my baby will come back to me in another little body... so im going to start to try to get pregnant again.... like"

clearly your trying to REPLACE .

Quoting SamarahESS TKD:“ wow your a cunt , i totally belive in rencarnation im a pagan thanks .... your a total bitch if you ... [snip!] ... your prioritties focus on healing rather then replacing and YOU said your SELF in one of your posts brb with the qoute .”

listen i jus lost my baby i dont have time to be arguing with u..u are ignorant becaus if i was saying all this wen ur child jus died....jus stop stalkin my posts..they are for human people who been through loss and suffreing and tryed again and even if they cant understand thry dont talk shit.. its not nice wen someone jus lost a child... but obviously u want all the drama and attention... please stalk someone elses post for that

Quoting SamarahESS TKD:“ direct qoute form YOUR POST you lier ... .".. also his daddy had a dream that Sergie came to him and ... [snip!] ... to me in another little body... so im going to start to try to get pregnant again.... like" clearly your trying to REPLACE .”

ok like i said i am not goin to argue so plz jus excuse urself

Quoting R.I.P My Son 08.21.09-10.:“ listen i jus lost my baby i dont have time to be arguing with u..u are ignorant becaus if i was saying ... [snip!] ... wen someone jus lost a child... but obviously u want all the drama and attention... please stalk someone elses post for that”

i have LOST I EVEN STATED THAT more then once , i was TRYING tp be kind and offer support and MY opnion IT IS A PUBLIC FORUM im never mean like this but your a fucking idiot .
i am DEEPLY SORRY for what you are going threw i REALLY AM but there WAS NO NEED for how rude you where to me ,
is it my fault you lost your son ? NO .
so dont act like it please ... i have been there but you jsut read only the part where i said no you ignore the fact i have lost a number of times .
my daughter should not even be here so take that and smoke it .

Quoting R.I.P My Son 08.21.09-10.:“ ok like i said i am not goin to argue so plz jus excuse urself”

prtoved you wrong ....... btyw one thing this might seem harsh and ims orry if it does but dont try to make your son come back let that new little being BE ITSSELF

im not trying to argue with you .
i was trying to be nice and help you your the one that was a bitch first .
FOR NO REASON other then you dont like my opnion .

anways , i am leaving now but just be carefull re think things and dont bother coming to me to talk heh you revoked that one being a bitch .
i wish you the best op i really do .......

and once again i am so so so sorry that you lost your boy he will always be by your side and watching over you ,.

Quoting SamarahESS TKD:“ prtoved you wrong ....... btyw one thing this might seem harsh and ims orry if it does but dont try ... [snip!] ... . i was trying to be nice and help you your the one that was a bitch first . FOR NO REASON other then you dont like my opnion .”

alrite u really want to know how i feel? will u fuck off then? ok..here it goes... no I AM NOT tryin to replace him....but I DO TRULY BELIEVE THAT HE WILL COME BACK TO ME....whether its him or not I WILL NEVER KNOW..mayb after I pass and talk to God maybe then i will figure it all out obviously no one ever came back and said well heaven is....I WILL ALWAYS LOVE MY SON andHE WILL ALWAYS BE MY FIRST BORN...whatever u think u proved wrong or right honestly doesn't matter...SORRY BOUT UR SON and not to say that its easy or anything but at least YOU STILL HAVE UR DAUGHTER....(i looked at ur page she is adorable)..well thats a reason to live.. to carry on... and maybe that's what I need another reason to live to try to learn from this and get stronger.. right now I am a mother with no child.... THAT EXPERIENCE FORTUNETLY U NEVER FELT...so u think what u want and sstate ur opnion all u want.. in the end of the day its going to be just an opinion...and my son will still be gone....so all this unnessary name calling is unnessesary...i can talk about u too....but its pointless it is what it is

Quoting R.I.P My Son 08.21.09-10.:“ alrite u really want to know how i feel? will u fuck off then? ok..here it goes... no I AM NOT tryin ... [snip!] ... be gone....so all this unnessary name calling is unnessesary...i can talk about u too....but its pointless it is what it is”

uhm yes i have you callous wretch i have lost more then my daughters twin as i stated before your not the only fucking person who has lost ... i have had a still birth AND a numbe rof miscarriages due to my wonky uterus so SHUT THE FUCK UP .
and i have felt this pain so dont you fucking dare say i have not you stupid wretch .