re: Ghetto?

I'm pretty sure I can judge whoever I want, lol.

In the end, it all comes down to what I said before. If you want people to respect you and treat you with dignity,then act humble, take advice and prove people wrong.

I don't think there is anything wrong what-so-ever about your SO being black, race is a non-issue for me. It's the fact that you haven't even finished high school and you don't have the means to care for this baby without getting a college education. College with children isn't impossible though, I do it and I'm a single mom who works on top of it.

That reply wasnt for you.
But since you arn't being so rude anymore,, you should know my baby's due in may right after school ends and i graduate, after that in august im starting a 1 year program for dentistry, all while my fiance is finishing up his last two years of college,while were both working and have the support of our familys.

Quoting L.Baby;:“ That reply wasnt for you. But since you arn't being so rude anymore,, you should know my baby's due ... [snip!] ... all while my fiance is finishing up his last two years of college,while were both working and have the support of our familys.”

Public Forum.

I could never be a dentist......scares the fuck outta me. They used to have to give me Valium just to get me in the chair. THEN, I had my wisdom teeth out while I was preggo. No offense, but I hate your kind! (dentists, that is....nothing personal, it just scares the fuck out of me.)

Right now, I'm going to school for administration, but I hate it. Basically, I'm getting this degree because it will take me 16 months to get an associates degree, and I'll be able to work starting off at 17 - 20.00 an hour (not great, but not minimum wage) while I'm in REAL school, which will take me around 8 years.

I have plans and goals and i'm not just some idiot who thought this up over night. I wish people could see that.

But thats's really good,, I hope it all works out for you.

Quoting L.Baby;:“ I have plans and goals and i'm not just some idiot who thought this up over night. I wish people could see that. But thats's really good,, I hope it all works out for you.”

The thing that got people going was that you started off using the word ghetto and then you post names that are extremely trendy and made-up. It's not right and it's not fair, but people associate those types of things with under-educated, ignorant teen moms. The point I was trying to get across to you is that you need to prove them wrong.

Basically, this site if full of stuck up bitches, myself included, I'll admit. We like proper grammar, spelling and someone who has something intelligent to add.

I see......

Did I say anything about your SO's skin color? No, I didn't think so. That has nothing to do with it. At 19 do you really thinks he's ready to settle down and be a daddy? But whatever. Prove us wrong.

I just love the way people whip out the race card... 

So then I don't get it??
If you didn't say that because he's black then why
do you just assume he'd end up in jail?
lol
and there's no race card being played, just wondering how
you assumed he'll end up in jail.

Because I've seen it firsthand from the girls I went to school with to my own family.

So because it happened in your family now you just go around thinking all 19 year old males end up in jail?

Lol, whatever.

Like Satanic Bitch said, prove us wrong.

lol, ok....

Is 'lol' the only word you know? Anyways, GL!

evidently it's pissing you off.
LOL

No, it isn't pissing me off. It just made me realize that you can't act older than your age even though you're going to be a mother soon.