re: Ghetto?

Quoting Lauren.Baby:“ I'm glad you all are so concerned about my life   thanks for caring. It makes my day to get online ... [snip!] ... get online and see a bunch of hatefulpeople who hate thier lifes so much they have to crticize mine thank you all so much  ”

LOVE my life.



Hate stupid brainless little girls with their legs spred to the world like you.

It's not a ghetto name.

Quoting Devil Duckie:“ LOVE my life. Hate stupid brainless little girls with their legs spred to the world like you.”

wow lol, your really mature.

Quoting Lauren.Baby:“ Urban? Ghetto? It all leads to the same thing,,,trying to saythe name sounds black.... I don't wan't ... [snip!] ... so naming my child KIMBERLY OR REBECCAwhenthe baby is black & whitewould be cruel, and close minded. I like the name Yaniah”

so just because the baby is black and white it HAS to have"black" sounding name or it's crule?? Isn't it your baby too? And you're white. If you're white and he's black then ur baby is just as much black as it is white, so why does it have to have a name that sounds a certain wait just because it's skin is darker. I mean whether you name her Jane or Jaquesha she's still going to be a mixed child. It shouldn't matter. That is one thing I don't understand is why white girls think they HAVE to name their kids black names so to speak if it is half black..like I girl I know has a son with a black guy and her son's name is De'Andre La'Trell -- sorry but that is fucking stupid. I mean name is a name it doesnt have torepresent a certain race. My nameis Jessica is so is 900 white and black girls. My SIL's name is Tasha Michelle and she's white.. So, it doesn't matter what you name her. But my suggestion is not to name ur kid some stupid shit that nobody can pronounce nor spell and yaniyah or whatever the hell u said sounds ignorant

Quoting TaylorsMommie:“ so just because the baby is black and white it HAS to have"black" sounding name or it's crule?? Isn't ... [snip!] ... not to name ur kid some stupid shit that nobody can pronounce nor spell and yaniyah or whatever the hell u said sounds ignorant”

did you just write me a story?
besides that did you just see what you wrote?
yupp, your right im deff. the ignorant one...
lol, people on this thing are crazy.
I've never seen so many crazy people in one place,,
and they say facebook and myspace is bad.
HA  

Quoting Lauren.Baby:“ did you just write me a story? besides that did you just see what you wrote? yupp, your right ... [snip!] ... on this thing are crazy. I've never seen so many crazy people in one place,, and they say facebook and myspace is bad. HA  ”

Uh whatever.

Quoting Lauren.Baby:“ did you just write me a story? besides that did you just see what you wrote? yupp, your right ... [snip!] ... on this thing are crazy. I've never seen so many crazy people in one place,, and they say facebook and myspace is bad. HA  ”

You don't think its "ignorant" to try and get pregnant at 16? and you don't think it's ignorant to say that you have to name ur mixed child a black name or it would be "crule" I do. I think it's stupid. I think NO 16 year old has any business trying to get pregnant. Having a baby isn't just dressing them up and showing them off, when your ass gets no sleep at night and cant go anywhere or do anything because u have a baby..or when you have to take care of a sick baby throwing up or having a cold or a baby with colic crying 24/7 ..you might change ur mind of how cool it is. Even mature adults have a hard time adjusting to babies..so I know a stupid 16 year old who don't know shit would.

But about the name thing- my point is no matter what u name her she's still mixed. I know a 100% black little girl name Madison (which is usually a white name) I knowa mixed little girl named Taylor which is the same as my daughters name and she's white. A name is just a name but sometimes naming ur kid some hard to say, hard to spell, ghetto looking name makes things harder on them. think about it.

Quoting TaylorsMommie:“ You don't think its "ignorant" to try and get pregnant at 16? and you don't think it's ignorant to ... [snip!] ... but sometimes naming ur kid some hard to say, hard to spell, ghetto looking name makes things harder on them. think about it.”

you just wrote me a story once again and to be honest I didn't read not one piece of shit word in it. thanks anyway for whatever it is you were saying.  

Quoting Lauren.Baby:“ you just wrote me a story once again and to be honest I didn't read not one piece of shit word in it. thanks anyway for whatever it is you were saying.  ”

You need to pull your head out of your ass, keep your legs closed in the future, and get an education. I bet my tax dollars are going to be supporting your sorry ass. I think the odds of your 'baby daddy' staying with you is almost nil.

im Puerto Rican and my name is Lauren just like yours lol...is it cruel...should I be named Maria, Juanita, Marisol etc...because I did just fine in life with my nappy hair and hispanic background having a "normal" american name...

saying it's cruel to give a biracial or a child of any race a certain name because they are a certain race...is ridiculous...I actually find that statement incredibly racist and offensive...

Lauren, you are a dipship. Plain and simple. People don't like your racist arguments and we think your girls name is ghetto. It's made-up, looks uneducated and illiterate. Your 16 and having a baby. People already look at you as an under-educated teenager that will probably sit on welfare for the rest of her life. What do we do to change peoples views? You prove them wrong. Prove them wrong by putting away the race card and picking something that is sweet, charming, unusual and spelled correctly. This will not only give your child a better chance at life and a fair start in the playing field we call the job market, but it will also show people that you are not the average teen age mommy with her babbiiii daddii, it would show them that you ARE half-way educated and intelligent. Now, don't come back to me saying that just because she has made-up name that your not intelligent. I didn't say that. What I'm trying to get at is that is exactly what people EXPECT out of a teenage mommy and people view teenage moms as undereducated and ignorant. Plain and simple, that's how it is. Fair or not fair, that's life. What I'm saying is, if you want people to view you differently than other teenage moms, take the first step in proving them wrong....by deeming your child with a name that you researched, thought about and has some kind of history and meaning behind it.

i think its really cute an different. go for it!

Quoting The Satanic Bitch:“ Lauren, you are a dipship. Plain and simple. People don't like your racist arguments and we think your ... [snip!] ... deeming your child with a name that you researched, thought about and has some kind of history and meaning behind it.”

HAHAHAHAHA

Quoting Satan:“ HAHAHAHAHA”

Why is this funny, lol? It's TRUE.

Quoting The Satanic Bitch:“ Lauren, you are a dipship. Plain and simple. People don't like your racist arguments and we think your ... [snip!] ... deeming your child with a name that you researched, thought about and has some kind of history and meaning behind it.”

Well said! I do think that a lot of people judge teenage mothers as uneducated or undereducated and ignorant, but that sometimes is not the case. Although being a teenage mother is not something to praise. I think it is ignorant to get pregnant at 14-17 but I will say that I got pregnant at 19 and I was 19 when my daughter was born but I turned 20 2 months later. I had graduated from highschool a year before I got pregnant and was attending college. I was neither undereducated nor ignorant. I had my daughter and my husband and I have been her soul providers since before she was born, I named my daughter a normal name - Taylor Brooke and I have been the best mother she could need and provided for her needs and beyond. So with that said, I was a teenage mother butI wasn't a statistic.

This girl lauren is stupid and ignorant. There is no need in naming your child a name that people can't pronounce and make her have a hard time in school or finding jobs or just personal and professional life just because she wants her to have a "black" name like she says or a "ghetto" name like we say it is. When she grows up..most employers are going to be skeptical to hire a girl named Yaniyah or whatever she said because they will probably think "shes ignornant or ghetto" right off the bat. But honestly, there is no need in us explaining to a 16 year old because she knows it all anyway, and after all it would be crule to give her child a normal name right??

TO LAUREN:: To me what's crule is giving ur child a fucked up name that nobody can say and she'll be in 6th grade before she can even spell it probably. Its crule to have a child that you KNOW you cannot take care of because you are 16 years old and probably don't even have a job. It's crule to have a child when you are a child yourself and you don't even have the maturity to take care of yourself, much less a child. So...I think the name is the least of the problems here.