re: re-doing a funeral?

Quoting Jamie & Jaelyn:“ My grandpa was a captain in the Navy [he was in for 27 years]. He was supposed to get a 21 gun salute, ... [snip!] ... military do their thing, but re-doing the speeches and everything seems weird to me. They are even bringing out his coffin...”

oh my goodness

Quoting Jamie & Jaelyn:“ My grandpa was a captain in the Navy [he was in for 27 years]. He was supposed to get a 21 gun salute, ... [snip!] ... military do their thing, but re-doing the speeches and everything seems weird to me. They are even bringing out his coffin...”

Ooooooh.. Wow..
I can kinda see why they want him to have that though. He deserves it!

If they did that to my husband.. I would be extremely pissed off.

Quoting Ashley{{Carters mommy}}:“ Ooooooh.. Wow.. I can kinda see why they want him to have that though. He deserves it! If they did that to my husband.. I would be extremely pissed off.”

I would be pissed to. You would already be going through so much and then for the funeral to be that messed up would just push me over the edge. I don't think I could bring the coffin out. Maybe just have something at home for family and friends. I would go back to the person that put the whole thing together and try and get my money back if I had to pay for anything. It is not ok to mess up someones funeral.

Oh wow, I would be really upset over that but I wouldn't pull his coffin back out.

My grandfather's funeral instead of actually having military members there they had everything recorded. It was kind of upsetting but it apparently was the best they could offer.

Pulling the coffin out is just creepy and wrong.
ehh