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Quoting HavanaH:“ I had planned to have a glorious, intervention free, home water birth for my first child who is due in ... [snip!] ... have to happen to me with only days left to go?   To make matters even sadder, I live across the street from the hospital.”

just try to remember, everything happens for a reason.

sorry, mama!

I know how you feel!I had to have a c-section And now i can only have 3 kids at the most.

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how hard that is.

  I'm sorry! I was able to have my son at home, but I was almost transferred due to him being posterior up until the end. I hope everything works out! you can still have a drug free birth, you just have to be that much more strong so they don't talk you into getting drugs!   Best of luck!

Quoting Kristin&&Ava:“ just try to remember, everything happens for a reason. sorry, mama!”

^Agrees.......Sorry you couldn't have a home birth. I sort of wish I could of too but I didn't even really know much about them at the time I had my son, I don't think I would of been able too anyway because I was consider high risk.

I'm so sorry this happened. Most of us had our plans for labour ruined... but seriously, it won't matter as much once your little one is in your arms. I wanted to have a home birth, which is normal in Guatemala anyways... ended up needing a C-Section a month early! It was awful. And though I still wish I could have had at least a natural birth, it really doesn't matter to me so much anymore.

When your baby is born, that's all that is going to matter.

Quoting SierraAndEzekiel:“ I know how you feel!I had to have a c-section And now i can only have 3 kids at the most.”

why only 3?

Quoting HavanaH:“ I had planned to have a glorious, intervention free, home water birth for my first child who is due in ... [snip!] ... have to happen to me with only days left to go?   To make matters even sadder, I live across the street from the hospital.”

same happened to me, I wanted a lovely water birth and got a c-section instead
  But it was for the best without medical intervention both me and my LO would have died.



 

OT, is that you in your avi?

Quoting ♥3 days til ????:“ why only 3?”

Idk when i was at the hospital having Ezekiel they said that 3 was the most i could have being on the safe side.I forgot why though?

Quoting SierraAndEzekiel:“ I know how you feel!I had to have a c-section And now i can only have 3 kids at the most.”

I wanted to have a total of 6 children or 4 at the very least, and then had a c-section with my first. I hate that you have to always have c-sections. I've read in many places that the c-sections for later children aren't always needed, maybe you can do some research since you live in the USA and find someone who will work with you into having a natural birth?

In Guatemala, after 3 c-sections they tie your tubes  

Quoting HavanaH:“ I had planned to have a glorious, intervention free, home water birth for my first child who is due in ... [snip!] ... have to happen to me with only days left to go?   To make matters even sadder, I live across the street from the hospital.”

I feel your pain. I planned a home birth (and had rented a tub though I wasn't set on giving birth in the water, I wanted it as an option) and I developed high blood pressure too. Actually I was positive for strep B and had decided to go to the hospital the day the my high blood pressure got too high (37 weeks and 2 days).

I ended up having an amazing birth experience, I can't imagine it being any better then it was. I was induced (two rounds of Cervadil, I went home after being monitored each time and after the second round was removed, and given some pitocin). My midwife used a wireless monitoring system (she wanted to monitor the baby's heartbeat the whole time). I spent the time in the hosptial on an exercise ball watching Blue Planet (on the computer, they wouldn't turn on the TV until the afternoon, after I had given birth  ), and in the tub.

You may still be able to having a waterbirth. My midwives do waterbirths at the hosptial.

Quoting MommyRu:“ I wanted to have a total of 6 children or 4 at the very least, and then had a c-section with my first. ... [snip!] ... and find someone who will work with you into having a natural birth? In Guatemala, after 3 c-sections they tie your tubes  ”

I think 3 would be enough,but then again im always scared im going to have 3 boys and i definitely want a girl out of 3 children.

at my hospitals they do Vbacs ive had 2 c sections and was told that i could do vaginal if i wanted too