cant handle this

gosh where do i start?..my BD is a total jerk!
we got back together and things were going great until we both got
really stressed and decided to step back and try to fix things..well he said he wanted to be with me and even tho we werent officially together he said i didnt have anything to worry about,and that he wasnt going to mess with anyone else. come to find out he's been messing with another girl and telling her that he wants to be with her and take care of her and all this BS..i talked to her and after we confronted him..he told her i was crazy..bipolar and that our daughter wasnt his..which he said he only said that was because he knew i was on the phone.
well its been about 2wks and then today i get a call from the dr. about my test results (cancer test thing..biopsy thing) and he wants to talk to in person about everything which is going to cost me even more money. so i ask BD for help since ive only gotten 20$ from him this whole time and alaysia is now 3months old. he was nothing but rude..said he wanted to see her but didnt want to deal with me. at one time when everything happend.. i did say i didnt want him around period!but i talked to him again and said as long as he was there for her and supported her then i wouldnt stand in the way..but why is he being such a jerk to me?.. i didnt do anything but try and keep us together?..why do i care so much?

should i just cut all contact with him?. i mean if he wants to see her or check on her he knows my number right?..

will he try and come back to me?..i know this is weird but i dont want him i just want him to regret doing this and want me..

yes this has happend before when i was 6months prego..he left the state and everything after he told me he cheated then called 2months later saying he wanted me back..will he do the same thing again?..

how are you due july 17 just wondering.

Quoting Sarah♥Erimas:“ how are you due july 17 just wondering.”

that was my due date..i havent been on here in a while..well in like 3months

Go file for child support & let your daughter have a relationship with him, if he wants it. He needs to be supporting his daughter. Doesn't sound like your guys' relationship is going to work, and that he just keeps leading you on in hopes that you won't take his ass for some child support. I think you should not contact him, start the child support process & move on.

Quoting Sarah♥Erimas:“ how are you due july 17 just wondering.”

Real dick move. Didn't respond to her post that she posted, & instead of seeing in that she just had a baby in July you ask a total non related question. Surprise.

It was too long but I read most and enough to know the answer. He is a peice of shit don't ever talk to him again

I think that you should file for child support and move on from him. He's just going to keep screwing you over and breaking your heart. Let him have a relationship with his daughter if he wants one but he doesn't deserve you.

file for support he isnt worth it. You dont him to want you when he feels like it and leave when he doesnt it isnt good for you or your child.

Quoting ♥ Michelle &hearts:“ Go file for child support & let your daughter have a relationship with him, if he wants it. He needs ... [snip!] ... won't take his ass for some child support. I think you should not contact him, start the child support process & move on.”

  I agree. You daughter needs that money.

And he sounds like a real dick.

thanks girls! but i feel as tho filing for child support will just be more of a pain then help..and in a way i just dont want him out our lives.
&& what i am about to say i dont want any attitude from anyone< but in a way i dont want to file because i feel that will totally ruin any chances with us even as friends..and i know it shouldnt be like that, but i cant help how i feel.
in a way i still love him and want him back but i dont want to go thru all that again and i know he will never change.. will he eventually call and try to come back?

&& yes i know i have to put my daughter first and i do..