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Vent....for those who are against Vaccinations

posted 19th Oct
I just wanted to vent a little about the doctors appt. I just had but I don't want to hear from people telling me to get my kids vaccinated, I'm not going to and I don't want to hear it, so if you post I'll ignore.
ARRRRGGGGHHHHH! So I moved to town a couple of months ago and so far have only been able to get appt at clinics or with docs who barely speak english. So I was super excited when I got an appt with one of the best docs in town who decided to start accepting new patients for a short time. Well after we're half way into our consultation he asks me if they're vaccinated. Now most docs ask me this and advise me to do it but aren't overly pushy about it. Well this guy told that in his practice it was a non-negotiable, madatory, important thing to do and until the kids are caught up they would be quarrantined every time they came into the office. He assumed that because of how adamate he was that of course I was going to do it and told me to go to the health center and they would set me up on a program to get my kids caught up. He then called all those people who scare us into not vaccinating criminal and thefact that I didn't vaccinate was also criminal. I tried to talk to him about my concerns and he either glossed over them saying that he hadn't heard that so it wasn't true (even tho, my concerns have been documented in the product monographs) or he completely dismissed it and went on to describe different reasons why other vaccinations were necessary, eg. my social responsibility, heard protection, children still die, etc. He wasn't even open to discussing my fears let alone my opinion. It's really too bad cuz he's such a good doctor otherwise and it took me forever to get into see him and now I have to go find another doctor cuz he won't see my kids.
......end vent.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Fort McMurray,
posted 19th Oct
Quoting A & W's Mommy:“ I just wanted to vent a little about the doctors appt. I just had but I don't want to hear from people ... [snip!] ... and it took me forever to get into see him and now I have to go find another doctor cuz he won't see my kids. ......end vent.”

That sucks.  
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I live in Sweden
posted 19th Oct
Quoting A & W's Mommy:“ I just wanted to vent a little about the doctors appt. I just had but I don't want to hear from people ... [snip!] ... and it took me forever to get into see him and now I have to go find another doctor cuz he won't see my kids. ......end vent.”


uhm im pretty sure what he did is illegal ..... iw ould look into that and report that asshole .
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I have 3 kids & live in Toronto, Ontario
posted 19th Oct
What an asshole. I think that's illegal, what he did.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Flying Fish Cove, Christmas Island
posted 19th Oct
I'd at least report it to the BBB.
I vaccinate, and I think that's a douche thing to do on his part!
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I'm due February 14th, have 1 child & live in Colorado
posted 19th Oct
Wow, it sucks that he was such a douche about the whole situation. But, in his defense maybe he is just making sure that all his other patients are safe. But he certainly didn't have to be such an asshole to you about the whole thing.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in United States
posted 19th Oct
I would look into reporting him or filing a formal complaint, since that's not allowed (and possibly not legal).

Think of it this way... if he was so stuck in his ways about it, do you really want him as your doctor anyway? Who knows what other concerns of yours he'll gloss over...
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I'm due February 11th (a girl), have 1 angel baby & live in Alberta
posted 19th Oct
How do I go about finding out if it is illegal?
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Fort McMurray,
posted 19th Oct
Quoting A & W's Mommy:“ I just wanted to vent a little about the doctors appt. I just had but I don't want to hear from people ... [snip!] ... and it took me forever to get into see him and now I have to go find another doctor cuz he won't see my kids. ......end vent.”

Wow, thats total bullshit. I would get another pedi and be sure to let that asshole know that you don't appreciate him infringing on YOUR LEGISLATIVE RIGHT.





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I have 2 kids & live in Connecticut
posted 19th Oct
Quoting Donut Lover:“ I'd at least report it to the BBB. I vaccinate, and I think that's a douche thing to do on his part!”


 

call the state medical board
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I'm due May 16th, have 2 kids & live in Arizona
posted 19th Oct
Quoting A & W's Mommy:“ How do I go about finding out if it is illegal?”
I would call the BBB, they should be able to tell you.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in United States
posted 19th Oct
Quoting ღEvan's Mommyღ:“ Wow, it sucks that he was such a douche about the whole situation. But, in his defense maybe he is just ... [snip!] ... sure that all his other patients are safe. But he certainly didn't have to be such an asshole to you about the whole thing.”

And I totally get that, and if he wants to quarantine me every time I'm cool with that.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Fort McMurray,
posted 19th Oct
Quoting A & W's Mommy:“ I just wanted to vent a little about the doctors appt. I just had but I don't want to hear from people ... [snip!] ... and it took me forever to get into see him and now I have to go find another doctor cuz he won't see my kids. ......end vent.”

I feel your pain... his actions were in complete contradiction to the AAP's Redbook about how dr's should react to parents who choose to not vaccinate or choose an alternative schedule... but I've faced such doctors before. It makes finding a pediatrician SO difficult. I even had a dr in the ER try to scare me with the whole "your kid can't go to school" schpeil, which I'm sure we've all heard
 
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I'm due July 2nd, have 1 child & live in Willow Grove, Pennsylvania
posted 19th Oct
sounds like he is a good dr.
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I have 2 kids & live in Texas
posted 19th Oct
  wow thats crazy, I didnt know doctors can deny you service because of that.
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I have 2 kids & live in Holt, Michigan
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