Is this unhealthy?

So, I'm 20, with 2 babies. Well their dad isn't my boyfriend, he's
actually married with a family of his own, but we still see each other
whenever he's available. He doesn't want anything to do with our kids, he
actually wanted me to get an abortion twice, but both times I was too far
along. We're still sneaking around, he's going to divorce his wife once his
oldest kid with her graduates and we're MADLY in love. So last night,
he proposed to me, with a ring and everything, and said that he wanted us
to get married as soon as he left his naggy ignorant wife. My mom, who
hates his guts, says that our relationship is unhealthy, he's just over 20
yrs older than me, and he was my high school teacher .. is our relationship
unhealthy or does love have no barriers?

IMO, love has no barriers, and there's no manual on who to love and who not
to love .. agree or disagree?

and before you call me fake again:

Um..

Unhealthy.
Wow

Errr. I think that's kind of gross and weird.

Just my opinion.


How do you think his wife feels? And why do you think he cares all of a sudden when he wanted you to abort both of your babies? I wouldn't go back to someone who thought like that.

If he's not willing to leave his wife NOW for you?

Unhealthy as eating dog shit

How will you be able to trust someone who cheated with you? You don't think he will just cheat on you like he did his current wife?

Are you being serious? Of course it is unhealthy..and just so you know, he is probably never going to leave his wife.

if you married him, you'd be an idiot.
SUUUUUURE, he'll leave his wife, uh huh.
And SUUUUURE, he'll fall madly in love with you and you guys will live the perfect fairy tale romance.
I think someone wrote "gullible" on your ceiling, take a look.

It's completely unhealthy.

So, are your kids going to stay living with your mother, so she can continue to watch her children while you are going out with your adulterous "boyfriend"?

How could you be in love with someone who doesn't want anything to do with your kids?

 
Please be joking.....

FYI This is going to piss off lots of people!

Very.

And he is never going to leave his wife.

And who's to say he won't find another women behind your back?

Because he's madly in love with you? Yeah, I bet he was madly in love with his WIFE too.

You really need to ask that?

Sounds like a Lifetime movie to me  


but on the serious note, I think it's unhealthy. Does he see the kids or spend any time with them?